Isenberg Counseling

Isenberg Counseling Counseling and coaching for personal and business relationships Sheldon & Raye Isenberg have practiced in the Naperville area since 1974.

Now in their practice, Isenberg Counseling, LCC they work with adult individuals and couples around personal and relationship issues at home and in business. Known for their direct and personable manner with clients they not only listen carefully to what is being said, but offer their considered opinions about the issues clients have. Their hope is that clients will have gotten to the heart of the matters which bring them to counseling and a renewed experience of themselves in the process. Shelly and Raye have been a couple raising a family and running a counseling practice for over 45 years. We know something about what it takes to still enjoy each other after all these years We want couples seeing either of us to have a new learning experience with each other so they can genuinely feel they are sharing their lives together with healthy respect for their differences. We feel the experience of working out issues and becoming a healthy couple is spiritual in it's essence. Shelly, in particular, is quite interested in working with couples and families in business together. Many of his clients are successful executives and business owners who somehow have found themselves struggling with how business issues are affecting their personal lives or how their personal lives are affecting their business success. Raye and Shelly live in Naperville where they raised their family. They have two sons and three grandchildren (so far).

Peck’s marriage was one example of the way marriages can be.  Peck was a real example of integrity to follow along with ...
10/06/2024

Peck’s marriage was one example of the way marriages can be. Peck was a real example of integrity to follow along with Burt Lancaster who were my movie idols as a kid.

Gregory Peck and Veronique Passani Peck shared one of Hollywood’s most enduring and iconic love stories. Peck, an actor of legendary status known for his roles in classic films like To Kill a Mockingbird and Roman Holiday, found his true partner in life when he met Veronique, a French journalist. Their marriage, which lasted for nearly five decades, was one filled with devotion, mutual respect, and a deep connection that extended beyond the glamour of Hollywood.

Gregory Peck was born on April 5, 1916, in La Jolla, California. He was raised primarily by his grandmother after his parents divorced when he was five years old. He had a strict Catholic upbringing, which shaped his strong sense of morality—a trait that would later define both his personal life and the roles he chose in his acting career. Peck studied at the University of California, Berkeley, where he developed an interest in acting and eventually moved to New York to pursue his dream of becoming an actor.

Peck’s big break came in the early 1940s when he was cast in Days of Glory (1944) and The Keys of the Kingdom (1944), which earned him his first Academy Award nomination. With his tall, imposing figure, deep voice, and commanding presence, Peck quickly became one of Hollywood’s leading men. He would go on to deliver iconic performances in films like Gentleman’s Agreement (1947), Roman Holiday (1953), and, of course, his most famous role as Atticus Finch in To Kill a Mockingbird (1962), for which he won the Academy Award for Best Actor.

Though Gregory Peck’s professional life was soaring, his personal life faced challenges. His first marriage, to Finnish-born Greta Kukkonen, ended in divorce in 1955 after ten years together. Despite having three sons—Jonathan, Stephen, and Carey—Peck and Kukkonen's marriage eventually dissolved due to the pressures of his demanding career and time spent apart. However, this period of transition would soon lead Peck to one of the most transformative encounters of his life.

In 1952, while filming Roman Holiday in Paris, Peck was introduced to a young French journalist, Veronique Passani, who had been assigned to interview him. Veronique was working for France Soir at the time, and their initial meeting was supposed to be purely professional. However, something about their encounter stood out to Peck. He was immediately taken by Veronique’s intelligence, charm, and beauty. After their interview, Gregory Peck invited her to lunch, a gesture that marked the beginning of their lifelong romance.

Veronique Passani was born in Paris on February 5, 1932, and grew up in a cultured, intellectual household. Her father was an architect, and her mother was a writer, instilling in Veronique a love of the arts from a young age. She became a journalist in her twenties, gaining a reputation for her insightful interviews with some of the most famous figures of the time. Despite her accomplishments, Veronique was modest and unassuming, qualities that deeply attracted Peck.

The couple’s whirlwind romance blossomed quickly, and by 1955, after Peck’s divorce from Greta, he proposed to Veronique. They were married on New Year’s Eve of that year in a private ceremony in Italy. For Peck, the relationship with Veronique was like nothing he had experienced before. He later described their marriage as “the best thing that ever happened to me.”

Veronique’s love and support were constant throughout Peck’s life and career. In a world where many Hollywood marriages were short-lived, theirs stood the test of time. They had two children together: a daughter named Cecilia and a son named Anthony. The couple was often seen attending premieres, awards ceremonies, and charity events together, always displaying a strong and united front. Unlike many other stars of the era, Peck and Veronique kept their personal life relatively private, choosing to focus on their family and their respective interests outside of the spotlight.

Peck was deeply devoted to Veronique, frequently crediting her as his greatest source of strength and stability. He was known for being a man of integrity and humility, qualities that were also reflected in his roles. As Atticus Finch, he became the embodiment of moral courage, a role that resonated with audiences around the world and aligned with his real-life values. His performance in To Kill a Mockingbird is still regarded as one of the greatest in film history, and Peck often spoke about how important the role was to him personally.

Veronique, for her part, stepped away from her journalism career after marrying Gregory, devoting much of her time to her family and philanthropic endeavors. She was an active supporter of various charitable organizations, particularly those focusing on children’s welfare and the arts. Veronique played a pivotal role in helping Peck navigate the challenges of fame, providing him with the emotional support that allowed him to thrive both personally and professionally.

One of the reasons their marriage endured was the genuine partnership they shared. Gregory and Veronique often traveled together, taking their children on trips around the world, immersing themselves in different cultures, and educating their children about global issues. The couple also enjoyed a quiet home life, spending much of their time at their estate in California, where they cultivated a peaceful, private existence away from the public eye.
Peck’s dedication to his family was matched by his commitment to social justice causes, a passion that he shared with Veronique. He was an outspoken advocate for civil rights, and Veronique supported him in his activism, attending rallies and events by his side. Together, they worked on several charitable initiatives, using their platform to raise awareness for causes they believed in, including education, healthcare, and the arts.

In 1993, Gregory and Veronique celebrated their 38th wedding anniversary, and by that time, their marriage had become an example of lasting love in Hollywood. Gregory Peck was known to express his deep affection for his wife publicly, often calling her the love of his life. He once said, “I had to wait a while for my greatest happiness. It was my second marriage, my love affair with Veronique.”

When Gregory Peck passed away on June 12, 2003, at the age of 87, Veronique was by his side. Their nearly 50-year marriage was a testament to the strength of their bond and their love for each other. In the years following his death, Veronique continued to honor her husband’s legacy, speaking about his contributions to film, his moral compass, and the life they shared together.

Gregory Peck and Veronique Peck’s love story is one that transcends the glamour of Hollywood. It is a story of two people who found in each other a deep connection built on mutual respect, shared values, and unwavering support. In an industry often marked by fleeting relationships, theirs was a rare and enduring partnership that stood the test of time.

Credit - original owner ( respect 🫡)

Well, it was on March 11th that I saw my last client in Naperville because of the virus that has most of us shut down or...
04/10/2020

Well, it was on March 11th that I saw my last client in Naperville because of the virus that has most of us shut down or in with or without those we love. I am "seeing" clients through my computer and talking with clients by telephone. Like so many businesses and practices I'm now applying for my SBA loan and awaiting my Federal stimulus check. We're all in this together. If I can be of some help to you at home, with those you are trying to live with, or with your emotions as you navigate your business in this perfect storm, please call on me or email and we'll talk. I'm still here.
This sidewalk art was done by a neighborhood child and complements "courage" during the times we have of enforced "togetherness." A noted marital researcher who watched couples deal with their differences behind a one way mirror, over many years, found that the most successful marriages exist on a strong component of kindness in dealing with differences. Some people are so naturally kind, but some of us have had to learn, over the years, how to do it "well enough." As we may know, assertiveness has always been important to getting what we want, but kindness helps soften the life we have together. The child who did this sidewalk art just knew that even dragons have a heart.

Shelly Isenberg

04/04/2020

I’m not sure those on Facebook “need” to read this, but there is useful information here from a range of therapists in the Naperville area, including yours truly.
Correction though, Raye and I do not live in “assisted living,” but do live in the “independent living” wing of Three Crowns Park, where we are healthy and happy.
Decent: With the need for human contact ‘hard-wired’ into us, finding alternative ways to communicate key to mental health
chicagotribune.com
Decent: With the need for human contact ‘hard-wired’ into us, finding alternative ways to communicate key to

Finding a balance between worrying and enjoying that works for you is the key to finding some internal peace in our life...
01/26/2020

Finding a balance between worrying and enjoying that works for you is the key to finding some internal peace in our life.

01/06/2020

It's been so long since I've written or contributed a post on this page that people might think I've retired. Facebook keeps reminding me and I keep putting it on the back burner. So here I am, not retired yet and still consulting with those who want to connect with me through Isenberg Counseling. Still on Jefferson in Naperville. Hope to post some more. If you see this let me know to encourage me to post more.

09/04/2019
Victories of the Heart weekends for men is a place to take stock of your life and worth considering.  There aren't many ...
05/17/2017

Victories of the Heart weekends for men is a place to take stock of your life and worth considering. There aren't many places men can go to explore where they are and where they are going in life.
Consider a break-through weekend or the week-end called "Wisdom Years"for the over 50/60 guys.

By UB therapist Bob Ryan, LCPC, ATR Why do I volunteer as a Victories staff person? Twenty-one years ago a good friend of mine, my therapist at the time, suggested I take a chance on making a change in my life. I was less than fulfilled in my career and was ready for something, but I

03/24/2013

Gosh! Guess I won't be lonely in my senior years. Seriously, Linked in is a good way to stay connected with fellow professionals.

Hurray! I'm one of the top 10% most connected members worldwide. http://www.linkedin.com/pub/profile/6/141/59a

A recent study found that the best marriage and relationship advice and insight comes from divorcees.  Interesting.....
11/24/2012

A recent study found that the best marriage and relationship advice and insight comes from divorcees. Interesting.....

The best marriage and relationship advice may not come from your parents, or even your grandparents after 50 years of marriage. Those who may know the most about what it takes to make a marriage work are those whose own marriages fell apart.

Address

43 E Jefferson Avenue Ste 201B
Naperville, IL
60540

Opening Hours

Monday 7:30am - 4:30pm
Tuesday 7:30am - 9:30pm
Wednesday 7:30am - 9:30pm
Thursday 7:30am - 4:30pm
Friday 7:30am - 1pm

Telephone

+16302075826

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when Isenberg Counseling posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Contact The Practice

Send a message to Isenberg Counseling:

Share

Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on LinkedIn
Share on Pinterest Share on Reddit Share via Email
Share on WhatsApp Share on Instagram Share on Telegram