01/29/2026
Your child worked really hard. Studied every night, practiced consistently, gave it everything they had.
And they still didn't make the team. Or failed the test. Or didn't win.
Now what?
If we only celebrate wins, we teach kids that effort only matters if it leads to success. And that's how you raise kids who quit the moment things get hard.
This week's blog is about celebrating effort and perseverance, not just outcomes. The messy middle. The trying again. The showing up even when it's tough.
We're also sharing a free Effort Spotter Weekly Checklist to help you notice and track the different ways your child shows effort, so you can celebrate it specifically and meaningfully.
Read the full post and download the checklist here.
Think about the last time a child succeeded at something. Made the team, got an A, won the game. There was probably celebration, right? Of course. Wins deserve recognition.But here's the question: what about all the times they tried hard and didn't win?The test they studied for but still failed. The...