12/20/2025
Reflection season doesn’t need to come with a side of self-criticism.
You don’t have to roast yourself to be honest.
You don’t have to rewrite your year to make it palatable.
And you don’t need a tidy narrative for it to count.
Gentle reflection builds capacity.
Shame just drains it.
If you’re looking back right now, try asking:
👉🏽What did this year teach me about my nervous system?
👉🏽 What do I want to carry forward — and what can stay here?
No grades. No gold stars. Just integration. 🌿