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Excerpts from Living LONG, Living Passionately by Karen Casey

LIVING LONG, LIVING PASSIONATELY incorporates the 12 Steps of AA, A course in Miracles and a daily practice of meditation and prayer.

LIVING LONG, LIVING PASSIONATELY is a book of personal stories and essays that are imbued with Casey's own understanding of peaceful living as guided by her 12-step practice, A Course In Miracles and a daily practice of meditation and prayer. These 75 essays help us make room for everything in our peaceful, vibrant well-lived life. Each brief nugget invites contemplation and action as she helps us explore fear and love, resistance and acceptance, willpower and discernment. Each essay ends with additional questions and prompts for you to explore your own life. Savor each of the essays and practices and choose the ones that speak to you.

11/15/2025

Excerpts from Living LONG, Living Passionately by Karen Casey

20. WRITING YOUR STORY
"Understand that any expression (words, actions, etc. ) that is not loving is a call for healing and help. Regardless of the form it takes. Respond to it with love. Always." (A paraphrased principle from A Course in Miracles)
We can't change the world. (How we wish we could.) We can't change anyone in the world. (No matter how hard we try.) But we can change how we will respond in the world of others. And every time we choose to be loving or accepting or understanding or forgiving of any person or situation that initially disturbed us, we are adding great benefit to the universe.
Close your eyes to the world for a minute right now so a memory or two of when you softened an encounter with some one else can bubble up. As soon as one comes, please write it down.
The importance of this suggestion is that it makes you and me fervently conscious of our impact on others. Each experience during which we respond with love is making our universe a kinder place for others to inhabit. It improves our condition too.
Now let's take a few moments to recall when we were less than loving. When we took issue with someone or reacted poorly in a situation. Close your eyes. Let it gently arise in your mind. Share what it was here.
If you could have a do-over, describe it. How does the do-over make you feel? Might you have amends to make?
Switching gears now...
Let's try our hand at story writing. Don't be afraid of the idea. No one among of us is incapable of creativity. And this story is yours, the one you want to live.
The story you just wrote can be your next real-life experience if you want it. The operable question is: do you? I've heard it said, and I fervently believe it to be true, that whatever we imagine ourselves doing can become our reality,
But doing to means planning our first steps.
Write in your journal about what you need to put in motion first. What would be the next stage of the dream?
If you are already living the best story ever written, then bravo! If not, decide to live a story that manifests your desires.

11/08/2025

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19.NOW WE CAN REALLY LIVE
"Life will give you whatever experience is most helpful for the evolution of your consciousness. How do you know this.....? Because you are having it." Eckhart Tolle
Everyone of our experiences is specific to us. Every single experience! Tolle knows this. So does the God of our understanding. ....It clearly means that there is no reason to question any experience.
Are you currently happy? I surely hope so. Your past has delivered you to this point, AN ENCOUNTER WITH ME, AS A MATTER OF FACT, THROUGH THE PAGES OF THIS BOOK, and it's my intent to help you squeeze understanding and joy from your past.
And if you aren't happy right now, perhaps it's because you are feeling anxiety about the undetermined future. If you have forgotten that every person, every past experience, every past moment was "wearing" your name, you just might be wallowing in doubt about all future moments. Couple all of those feelings with entering your sixties or seventies, and you may be fretting there is not much of the good life yet to live. But I say, ON THE CONTRARY. Now we can really live.
Before getting bogged down in doubt, suspend any disbelief you might have about the necessity for each of your life experiences for a moment, and begin a list in your journal of a few significant experiences that have occurred in the last twenty or so years of your life.
How do you want your remaining years to look? What comes first to mind when you envision them?What would please you the most about the remaining decades of your life if you could manifest your perfect picture of the future?

10/11/2025

Excerpts from Living LONG, Living Passionately by Karen Casey
17. SEEKING SOLITUDE
Seeking solitude as preparation for "changing our minds" opens the door to our future. Meditation is too little valued. "The more man meditates upon good thoughts, the better will be his world and the world at large," says Confucious. Without much effort, every one of us can have a positive impact on the world at large. It's as simple as choosing our thoughts with greater care.
But not one of us is forever free from the occasional dark thought or dismissive demeanor; and when the inevitable happens (and it always does), our job is to quickly acknowledge what we are harboring in our minds and seek, AT ONCE, to shift our perception, to change our mind, in order to be better stewards of the universal mind.
Before going one thought more, let's pause and consider what has transpired in our minds already since arising this morning.
What thought are you now uncomfortable with?
What thought do you wish you had coddled instead?
How fortunate that what we thought only a moment ago holds no sway of us AT THIS MOMENT, unless we allow it to...for the first four decades of my life. I so willingly gave my mind away, to whomever was nearby, sharing whatever opinion, pleasant or unpleasant was being expressed....I didn't even recognize how little I thought of myself.
But now I do. ..In past years, I was prone to politely, but swiftly, letting others know when I didn't share their political or religious views...I have gladly given up that idea... Now it's your turn
What thought or action can you let go of? And what can you replace it with?

09/27/2025

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16. TEACHERS OF PERSPECTIVE
Perhaps you haven't thought much about the role perspective has played in your life prior to reading these essays. But it's been a big one, I assure you, and over the years you have honed either a positive perspective or a negative one to near perfection. Whichever one we most often grab in the heat of the moment painstakingly paints the perspective we have about life.
Let's pause a moment and think about the many people who show up on our path regularly. They are not showing up willy-nilly.....You might be looking at one of your most important teachers whose every action or word is nurturing your willingness to be more accepting, a decision that shifts you perspective from negative to positive.
On the other hand, maybe you are serving as their teacher, the one who can help them shift their negative perspective into one that is more genial. Demonstrating a new way of seeing may change everything that follows from this day forward in his or her life.
Because it's a worthy pursuit to make a list of our many teachers to date, list the primary ones in your journal, and acknowledge the specific gift that resulted from their presence on your path. And remember, not all gifts looked good when first received.
Now it's time to consider your teachers. The importance of this can't be overemphasized. Pick your primary teachers, regardless of

09/20/2025

Excerpts from Living LONG, Living Passionately by Karen Casey

15. ROSES RATHER THAN THORNS
"We can complain because rose bushes have thorns, or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses." Abraham Lincoln
Actively, yet quietly, developing a peaceful perspective is the key, the one and only key I've discovered, to calm the running tapes in our minds, tapes that accelerate the chaos we feel within. Seeking to shift one's perspective away from the all too common turmoil, turmoil that generally isn't any concern of ours anyway, is a beginning.
Perhaps it seems that I am obsessively focused on living the peaceful life...No doubt there are other states of mind nearly as valuable as being at peace.
I think we are lucky, very lucky indeed, to be in charge of our state of mine, a state of mind that sees roses rather than thorns.....I know I don't want to have my present or my future in someone else's control ever again...For years I was trapped. Letting others have responsibility for my actions, opinions, and feelings took me off the hook.
But something did finally change. I still don't know what triggered it, but I did finally have a shift in perception.
To be more peaceful, I plan to.....

09/13/2025

14.THE PURPOSE OF LIFE IS TO BE HAPPY
"I believe that the very purpose of life is to be happy. From the very core of our being, we desire contentment. In my own limited experience I have found that the more we care for the happiness of others, the greater is our own send of well being."-- Dalai Lama
I surely couldn't have expressed any more clearly the sentiment shared by the Dalai Lama in the above quote. We too often think our purpose in life needs to be far grander that to just usher in a few happy moments in another person's life. If we can create, for just one person, an hour or a moment of genuine peace and well being, we will have lived a worthy life.
Don't misunderstand. We need the superstars too--the Bill Gateses and Warren Buffets. We need the Hillary Clintons and Bill O'Reillys. ....People who reach from afar into our lives and make us think they make us take a stand; they make us better people.
Assuredly, we can all remember being asked when we were youngsters, "What are you going to be when you grow up?" And had we answered, "Make someone happy," the questioners would likely have scoffed. That answer would not have demonstrated a lofty enough dream.
Perhaps you are thinking this is simply not doing enough for mankind. Perhaps you are wondering how an activity so simple, so common, can put food on the table and a roof over one's head. My point is not that work that draws a paycheck isn't valuable.....The Mother Teresas of the world measure worth by the smallest of deeds we do for one another.
Perhaps you are reading this and thinking there has do be more.....Any work we did, or continue to do, counted. But the smallest token of appreciation for another's presence on one's journey is what really matters, and that act requires little more than willingness.
When I look back on my life, what experiences or accomplishments please me the most?
If I had to defend my choices above, what would my defense be?

08/30/2025

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13. AN INVENTORY
It is said that if we don't learn from our history, we will repeat it. This is true on the world stage and for us as individuals, I think. Let's take an inventory of our lives and check this out.
Probably everyone reading this essay has made a lot of mistakes over the years. Life isn't always pretty, at least mine wasn't. It's not expected to be, in fact, but far too many of us never quit blaming ourselves for mistakes of the past.
I know I let folks down in the past, my parent in particular. And even though I made amends, both verbally and by changing my behavior quite dramatically, I still have moments of remorse for the embarrassment I caused them. I think this is partly due to my age now.
Whatever your age right now, it's time to move on.
Perhaps we should begin here making a list of those things we know we have learned and need no reminders about. Let me name a few so you can get the idea.
1. I have learned that fear wears many faces and one of them is anger.
2. I have learned that letting other people be in charge of their own journey through life is the only way to ensure my peace of mind....
Now it's your turn. What do you know to be true?....

08/09/2025

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12. I CAN CHOOSE PEACE INSTEAD OF THIS
I've mentioned in other essays how important A COURSE OF MIRACLES has been to my spiritual development. Because the Course complements the twelve steps of AA and Al-Anon, I feel many moments of actual joy nearly every day, a payoff I had never expected. These three pathways have grounded me.
Perhaps some of you can relate. A book such as this probably wouldn't have drawn you in if you had never traveled the rocky roads of life.
The title of this essay is "I can choose peace instead of this..." You might be wondering what that means. Here's my take: no one is in charge of my thoughts but me. NO ONE! No one is in charge of my actions either...Knowing that we have the power, the total power, to decide who we will be every instant, makes choosing to be peaceful, rather than controlled by the ugliness of others, a delicious choice.
When I choose to sit on the sidelines, watching a drama rather than trying to manage it, particularly one that doesn't concern me, my heart isn't elevated. My mind doesn't race. I experience a sense of warm, loving detachment and know immediately that I want more of that feeling. And now I know where to get it.
Enough about my feelings, my choices, and my development. It's time to explore who you are, what you feel, how you choose what you will do or say or think or feel in the myriad circumstances that fly in your direction.
Is there anything we have talked about here that you'd like to share with a spouse or a friend? I hope so.,,,,write a note to a loved one about what you have learned from this particular essay.
What do you do when you take a time out from the activities that call to you. Do you meditate?
1. What's the most recent time you felt agitation? Can you honestly assess whether you were sticking your nose into something that didn't concern you? If yes, let's revisit this scenario in your mind and choose another response to the situation.

08/02/2025

11. REMEMBRANCES
"Everyone must leave something behind when he dies, my grandfather said. A child or a book or a painting or a house or a wall built or a pair of shoes made. Or a garden planted. Something your hand touched some way so your soul has somewhere to go when you die, and when people look at that tree or that flower you planted, you're there." RAY BRADBURY
I have lost a number of very good friends over the past couple of years. And I have mementos from three of the women in my study. A rock from one friend, a book from another, and a pin from the third.
i think of these women, and my mother too, as the angels who however around my shoulders at good times, as wells as at difficult time. Actually, I have very few difficult times anymore.
Arriving at the threshold of seventy-five, nearly takes my breath away. How could the years have passed so quickly? Death may well be twenty years from now, and I hope it is (if my health holds), but most of my life has already been lived
All things have their end, in one respect. Experiences. People. Sometimes relationships too. I don't mean for this essay to be maudlin. On the contrary, I think that what lies ahead in this life, or the next will be greater than my heart or mind can currently imagine.
What are your thoughts about dying or the dead who have passed already?
Whom do you remember clearly? And why?
And whom do you hope will keep your spirit alive? What?

07/26/2025

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10. FORGIVE YOURSELF COMPLETELY
Is there really a need to forgive ourselves? Some may think not, and it's an individual decision, certainly. The trajectory of my life, however, has clearly shown me that forgiveness is necessary. I walked myself into many dark alleys....from ages sixteen to thirty-six when I finally got sober. That I lived to tell my story is due to the presence of "hovering angels."
As a child I never considered the possibility that SOMEONE was watching over me.That idea wasn't ever addressed in my family around the supper table or at bedtime...Nor was grace spoken when we gathered to eat....I simply never considered (God's) presence.
How different my life might have been if I had lived as though God were my daily companion, available for consultations on a regular basis....The interesting thing, however, is that I believe wholeheartedly that whatever any one of us needs to learn will make its way home to us. In time. Absolutely.
One of the things I had to undertakes, since becoming sober, is to create a list of opportunities, for forgiveness, whether of myself or someone else.
I had to forgive myself for abusing my body with alcohol and drugs. ........I dangled for many years over the abyss, a choice that I made with eyes opened. That there was a presence watching over me, an unacknowledged one for sure, made it possible for me to eventually get back on track and become the woman I had been charted to be so long ago.
A good exercise for all of us is to take an inventory, however, brief, and begin the process of seeing ourselves as we are, not how we pretend to be. Dig deep.
"The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward." --Steve Maraboli

07/19/2025

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9, WHAT'S NEXT?
"Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending." Carl Bard
What do we do now that life as we knew it is over? ....Is there any place we are needed? Or are we finished, simply finished? Not at all.
These are good questions, I think, for us to consider as we round this corner of life. The big job has been packed away. Now we are searching for activities that will keep us vibrant, engaged, fulfilled and happy.
For many, the journey to this stage of life has been meaningful, profitable, and fulfilling. The fear about getting out of bed on day one of the next stage of life will be traumatic for some, because there is no office to go to, no letters to dictate....many never realized that involvement with others was the key that opened the door to one's heart. So don't tarry in the "what's next" stage too long.
I'm offering this idea to you because so much remains to be done to make life even tolerable for millions of people.
What joy this new part of our journey can bring if we decide to show up for it.

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