Ames Center for Counseling

Ames Center for Counseling Compassionate, evidence-based therapy in Nashville (in person and Telehealth) & Telehealth in Florida. Safe, affirming space for healing & growth.

Specializing in anxiety, trauma, OCD, substance use, & life transitions.

It’s easy to internalize someone else’s tone, attitude, or distance—especially if you’re already someone who overthinks ...
04/01/2026

It’s easy to internalize someone else’s tone, attitude, or distance—especially if you’re already someone who overthinks or tends to take responsibility for how others feel.

But not everything is yours to carry.

When someone is rude, dismissive, or cold without clear reason, it often says more about what they’re holding than anything about you.

✨ Their stress
✨ Their wounds
✨ Their emotional capacity

Not your worth.

Part of healing is learning to pause before assuming:
“Did I do something wrong?”
…and instead asking:
“Is this actually mine to take on?”

You deserve relationships where you feel respected, safe, and valued—not ones where you’re constantly questioning yourself.

If this pattern feels familiar, therapy can help you untangle it and feel more secure in yourself and your relationships.

If you’ve been hard on yourself lately, read this again.Healing doesn’t always look like big, obvious wins.Sometimes it ...
03/27/2026

If you’ve been hard on yourself lately, read this again.

Healing doesn’t always look like big, obvious wins.
Sometimes it looks like getting through the day.
Setting one boundary.
Feeling your feelings instead of avoiding them.

The version of you at 10 needed safety.
The version of you at 80 will value meaning, connection, and peace.

You’re somewhere in the middle—figuring it out, doing your best.
And that counts more than you think.

If you’re ready to feel more grounded, confident, and at ease in your life and relationships, therapy can help 🤍

📍 Nashville + Florida
🔗 amescenterforcounseling.com

You’re not “back at square one.”You’re noticing patterns you used to move through on autopilot—and that awareness change...
03/25/2026

You’re not “back at square one.”

You’re noticing patterns you used to move through on autopilot—and that awareness changes everything.

A lot of people come to therapy feeling frustrated that they’re “still dealing with the same things.” But what’s actually happening is growth:
You’re catching it sooner.
You’re questioning it.
You’re pausing instead of reacting.

That’s not failure—that’s progress.

Real change doesn’t happen in one perfect leap. It happens in moments like this… when you notice, reflect, and choose differently (even if it’s just a little).

If you’ve been feeling stuck in old patterns lately, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself 🤍

Being the “responsible one” didn’t just disappear when you grew up.It often turns into:over-functioning, people-pleasing...
03/19/2026

Being the “responsible one” didn’t just disappear when you grew up.

It often turns into:
over-functioning, people-pleasing, and burnout.

If you’ve always felt like you have to hold everything together…
you’re not alone—and you don’t have to keep doing it this way.

Therapy can help you learn how to prioritize yourself without guilt.

📍 TN (in-person + telehealth) | FL (telehealth)



A lot of what you learned to do to survive…now feels like just “who you are.”Overworking.People-pleasing.Always being on...
03/17/2026

A lot of what you learned to do to survive…
now feels like just “who you are.”

Overworking.
People-pleasing.
Always being on edge.
Struggling to trust.
Feeling like you’re “too much” or “not enough.”

These aren’t personality flaws.
They’re adaptations.

At some point, your brain learned:
“Stay alert. Stay good. Stay safe.”

And it worked.

But now it might feel exhausting—like you can’t fully relax, trust, or just be.

You’re not broken.
Your brain was protecting you.

And healing is possible.

If this resonates, therapy can help you feel safer in your body, your relationships, and your life.

I work with anxious, high-achieving adults navigating trauma, anxiety, and relationship patterns.

Tennessee (in-person + telehealth)
Florida (telehealth)

Save this if you’re starting to realize…
you were surviving, not failing.

Dating someone emotionally unavailable can feel incredibly confusing.One day they’re warm and affectionate.The next day ...
03/13/2026

Dating someone emotionally unavailable can feel incredibly confusing.

One day they’re warm and affectionate.
The next day they pull away.

You may find yourself asking questions like:

• “Did I do something wrong?”
• “Why are they distant now?”
• “Why do I feel so anxious in this relationship?”

Emotionally unavailable partners often create a cycle of hope and confusion that can keep you stuck questioning yourself.

If you’ve noticed patterns like this in your relationships, it doesn’t mean you’re “too much” or asking for too much.

Often it means your nervous system is responding to inconsistent emotional safety.

Therapy can help you understand your attachment patterns, rebuild trust in yourself, and learn what secure relationships actually feel like.

I work with anxious, high-achieving adults navigating anxiety and relationship patterns.

📍 Tennessee (in-person + telehealth)
💻 Florida (telehealth)

Save this if you’ve ever felt confused in a relationship.

Ever notice how quickly your brain fills in the blanks when you feel triggered?“They’re mad at me.”“I must have done som...
03/10/2026

Ever notice how quickly your brain fills in the blanks when you feel triggered?

“They’re mad at me.”
“I must have done something wrong.”
“They’re pulling away.”

Your mind starts creating a story before you actually have the facts.

For people who struggle with anxiety or relationship insecurity, this happens fast — sometimes in seconds.

One tool I teach clients is The 24-Hour No Story Rule.

Instead of reacting to the narrative your brain creates, you give your nervous system time to settle.

Notice the feeling.
Pause your reaction.
Don’t create a story.
Wait for the facts.

Most of the time, the story our anxiety creates isn’t actually true.

And learning to slow that process down can completely change how you experience relationships, conflict, and stress.

If you’re someone who tends to overthink interactions, replay conversations, or assume the worst, therapy can help you break that cycle.

You don’t have to keep living in your head.

📍 Nashville, TN (in-person)
💻 Florida + Tennessee (telehealth)

DM me or visit the link in my bio to schedule a consultation.

Some people carry trauma and still go to work every day.They show up for friends.They achieve.They smile.But inside, the...
03/05/2026

Some people carry trauma and still go to work every day.
They show up for friends.
They achieve.
They smile.

But inside, their nervous system never learned what safe feels like.

Complex trauma doesn’t mean someone is broken, dramatic, or stuck in a “victim mindset.”

It means their brain and body adapted to survive things they shouldn’t have had to survive.

And those adaptations can show up as:
• anxiety that won’t turn off
• overthinking every interaction
• difficulty trusting people
• feeling responsible for everyone else’s emotions
• exhaustion from always being “on”

Healing isn’t about blaming the past.
It’s about helping your nervous system learn that the danger is over.

And that kind of healing is possible.

If you’re a high-achieving adult who looks successful on the outside but feels overwhelmed on the inside, therapy can help.

📍 Nashville, TN (in-person)
💻 Tennessee + Florida (telehealth)

Anxiety has a way of convincing you that everyone is watching and judging you.Your brain might say things like:• “Everyo...
03/04/2026

Anxiety has a way of convincing you that everyone is watching and judging you.

Your brain might say things like:

• “Everyone can see how nervous I am.”
• “They noticed my voice shake.”
• “They think I’m awkward.”
• “I sounded stupid when I said that.”

But the truth is: most people are far more focused on themselves than on the tiny things you’re worrying about.

An anxious mind often magnifies small moments into something much bigger than they actually are.

Learning how to challenge these thoughts and calm your nervous system can make social situations feel so much easier.

If you relate to this, therapy can help you quiet the inner critic and feel more confident in relationships and everyday life.
Save this for the next time your brain tells you everyone is judging you. 🤍
I offer therapy for anxious, high-achieving adults in Tennessee (in person + telehealth) and Florida (telehealth).


You’re the dependable one.The responsible one.The one everyone leans on.But no one sees how anxious you feel at 2am.How ...
03/03/2026

You’re the dependable one.
The responsible one.
The one everyone leans on.

But no one sees how anxious you feel at 2am.
How hard you are on yourself.
How exhausted you are from holding it all together.

High-achieving adults often look “fine” on the outside — while silently battling burnout, overthinking, and relationship anxiety.

You don’t have to keep being the strong one alone.

Therapy can be a place where you get supported.

If this resonates, I offer in-person sessions in Tennessee and telehealth in TN & Florida.
Free 15-minute consult link in bio.

Save this for the days you’re tired of carrying everything. 🤍

If you’re the one who:• Went to therapy• Learned about boundaries• Stopped people-pleasing• Refused to “keep the peace”Y...
02/27/2026

If you’re the one who:
• Went to therapy
• Learned about boundaries
• Stopped people-pleasing
• Refused to “keep the peace”

You probably got labeled the black sheep.

Growth feels threatening to people who preferred the old version of you.

Save this if it’s you.
Send it to the friend who gets it. 🐑✨

Strong doesn’t mean silent.Independent doesn’t mean alone.If you’re exhausted from holding it all together… therapy migh...
02/26/2026

Strong doesn’t mean silent.
Independent doesn’t mean alone.

If you’re exhausted from holding it all together… therapy might be the place you finally exhale.

Ames Center for Counseling offers a safe, affirming space for women and the LGBTQ+ community in Nashville to heal, grow, and feel understood.

You deserve support that feels safe.🤍

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1900 Church Street Suite 300
Nashville, TN
37203

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 5pm
Tuesday 9am - 5pm
Wednesday 9am - 5pm
Thursday 9am - 5pm
Friday 9am - 4pm

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