Dr. Laura E Anderson

Dr. Laura E Anderson Coaching, Consulting & Educating around complex and religious trauma

02/17/2026

Ah yes, the “submission is beautiful” argument... right up there with “God gives his hardest battles to his strongest soldiers.” 🫠

If it drains you, silences you, or erases your sense of self… it’s not holy. It’s harm dressed up in theology.

02/17/2026

If my childhood indoctrination were an Olympic sport, I’d still be winning at surviving. Anyone else? 🤪

02/16/2026

Your body isn’t bad.
Your pleasure isn’t shameful.
Your healing is valid.

Purity culture | Exvangelical | Deconstruction | Embodiment | Religious trauma | Spiritual abuse

02/16/2026

When people share their experiences of religious trauma, they’re often met with responses like “you’re exaggerating” or “it wasn’t that bad.”

These statements aren’t neutral.
They’re dismissive, invalidating, and can actually reinforce the very trauma survivors are working to heal from.

Religious trauma is real.

It shows up in the body, in relationships, and in the way we see ourselves and the world.

Naming it isn’t “bitterness” or “unforgiveness,” it’s the first step toward reclaiming safety, connection, and wholeness.

If you’ve been told your pain is “exaggerated,” know this: your story matters, and your healing is valid. 🖤

02/16/2026

If purity culture blurred your ability to feel choice in your body, support is available. You can schedule a free inquiry call today 🔗

02/14/2026

Purity culture didn’t just shape your beliefs—it shaped your nervous system, your relationships, and your self-perception.

If you’re still asking, “Is this bad?” about normal human feelings… you’re not alone.

And you’re not doing it wrong.

02/13/2026

Forgiveness isn’t a shortcut to healing—and it’s not always the goal.

Your healing matters more than anyone’s expectations of grace.

Forgiveness | religious trauma | exvangelical | ex evangelical | spiritual abuse | deconstruction

02/13/2026

There’s something magical and sacred about finding your people after realizing the old ones only liked you for your casserole recipe 💃🏼

02/12/2026

Abuse dressed up in marital or spiritual language is still abuse. You don’t have to wait for someone else to name it before you get to leave. 🖤

02/12/2026

What is something else you wish you could tell your younger self about your worth? 🖤

02/12/2026

Desire doesn’t disappear when you shame it.

Stitch with on IG

02/12/2026

You don’t have to be “fully healed” to inspire others.
Your story—exactly where it is—can be a lifeline for someone else.

Keep going. Keep speaking.

If you’re looking for support on your healing path, I’m here.

Click the 🔗 to learn more about 1:1 coaching.

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