03/17/2026
Recovering from chronic people pleasing, boundaries have become a daily practice for me, something I am still strengthening. In the past, I would drink and still do whatever I could to appease everyone else, and most of the time that path led me to anger and eventually resentment.
What I have learned is that it is not my responsibility for other people to know my threshold, it is MY responsibility to know it and to honor when enough is enough. When I move from that place, I do not overcommit and I do not say yes when my body, heart, mind, and soul are saying no. And if someone does not want to remain in my life when I am being honest and rooted, then we are just not aligned, and that creates space for both of us for something more aligned to enter.
With Love & Support,
Laurel 🤍