Bennett Funeral & Cremation Care

04/26/2026

The day brought us to the steps of the beautiful, historic Centenary United Methodist Church in downtown New Bern, where we gathered to serve a family saying goodbye to a man who had given so much of himself to others—an Air Force veteran, a former River Bend town councilman, a Rotarian, a devoted community servant, and above all, a family man.

As we moved through the quiet rhythm of the day, something simple caught our eye. Just beyond the steps, surrounded by bright blooms and warmed by the sun, a small sign stood with a message that felt almost placed there just for this moment:

“Love thy neighbor.”

It landed differently in that space—less like a phrase and more like a reflection of the life we were there to honor. A life lived in service, in kindness, in commitment to others. In that stillness, it felt like both a reminder and a legacy—softly echoing the very way he chose to move through the world. In loving memory of our friend, Bud Van Slyke.

04/22/2026

Linda lived nearly all her life in Craven County, attending Ernul Elementary and Farm Life High School (1958), and then completed a year’s study at the Kees Coastal Business College in Norfolk, Virginia. She married her high school sweetheart, Arvis, in 1960, and they shared 66 years of life together.

Linda was born on February 19th, 1940 and passed away on April 16th, 2026 at the age of 86

04/22/2026

Taylor graduated from Hargrave Military Academy before serving three years in the U.S. Army Security Agency. When his father became ill, he returned home to assist with the family business of developing communities. He later enjoyed a distinguished 26 year career with Weyerhaeuser as Southeast US Operations Manager, where he played a key role in developing thoughtful communities across Louisiana, Georgia, Alabama, Florida, and especially his beloved New Bern, North Carolina. Among his proudest achievements was Taberna—his favorite project—which reflected his commitment to building responsibly, always guided by faith, family, and the best interests of the community.

Taylor was born on May 30th, 1952 and passed away on April 17th, 2026 at the age of 73

04/21/2026

Sometimes, the quietest acts say the most.

If you’ve ever visited our funeral home, you may have noticed the flowers—bright, carefully arranged, always tended. What you may not have noticed is the care that goes into keeping them that way.

These photos capture one of our own, Donald Murphy, one of our dedicated Funeral Assistants. He didn’t know anyone was watching as he pulled w**ds, swept the entrance, and made sure every detail was just right. Around here, it’s safe to say… no w**d stands a chance against Donald 😁

But what makes this moment special isn’t just the work—it’s the heart behind it.

Every flower bed, every clean walkway, every small detail you see when you arrive is part of something bigger. It’s our way of creating a space that feels peaceful, welcoming, and cared for during life’s most difficult moments.

And for as much care that goes into what you can see… even more goes into what you can’t. Behind the scenes, that same dedication and attention is given as we lovingly care for those entrusted to us, and support the families we serve.

Because here, every detail matters—and every act of care, no matter how small, is done with purpose.

04/20/2026

Throughout his life, he was known for his disciplined leadership, his commitment to developing others and his belief that strong institutions are built through investment in people. He often quoted a guiding principle: “Good, better, best—never let it rest until your good is better and your better is best.”

Bud was born on November 30th, 1932 and passed away on April 16th, 2026 at the age of 93

04/19/2026

Jim served his country with honor in the United States Navy aboard the USS Vermilion, which was present during the Cuban Missile Crisis. Jim carried the ship’s proud motto, “Can Do,” with him throughout his life, shaping his work ethic, resilience, and commitment to others.

Jim was born on June 30th, 1940 and passed away on April 17th, 2026 at the age of 85

04/18/2026

We are honored to welcome our sister, Chelsea Stilley, to the Bennett Funeral & Cremation Care family. 💛

A New Bern native and former public school teacher, Chelsea brings a natural sense of warmth, compassion, and nurturing to our funeral home. Her heart for serving others is evident not only in the care she provides to the families we are privileged to walk alongside, but also in the support she offers our funeral directors and staff each day.

Chelsea is married to First Sergeant Chris Stilley, who serves full-time in the United States Army. Together, they are raising two wonderful sons and faithfully serve in ministry at their church here in New Bern.

Pictured here, Chelsea is serving during a funeral service while holding her youngest son, Samuel — a beautiful reflection of the love, dedication, and family-centered care that defines who we are.

Please join us in welcoming Chelsea to our team. 🤍

04/17/2026

Marcus was a sociable presence in his neighborhood near the Neuse River, taking walks with the family’s three equally social dachshunds. He never knew a stranger and would strike up conversations with just about anyone. Marcus was quick to share a funny story—he seemed to have an infinite number—and always delivered a punchline with precision.

Marcus was born on January 18th, 1952 and passed away on April 15th, 2026 at the age of 74

04/17/2026

Sue was a mover and a shaker. No grass grew under her feet. If you walked into her line of sight you’d better brace for the strongest hug imaginable from a barely 5 foot frame. She was always wherever the fun was!

Susan was born on August 25th, 1951 and passed away on April 16th, 2026 at the age of 74

04/17/2026

Jennie found joy in playing bingo nearly every day, spending time playing cards with friends, or enjoying a quiet game of solitaire. She was known for her spirited personality—at times a bit of a spitfire and unafraid to speak her mind—but also for her kindness and warmth toward those she loved.

Jennie was born on July 31st, 1926 and passed away on April 16th, 2026 at the age of 99

04/15/2026

Carol's life was a testament to the beauty of love and faith intertwined, a tapestry woven with the laughter of family gatherings, the joy of her love for dancing, and the twinkle of Christmas trees in every room of her home. Her love for dogs, trips to Disney, and beach vacations added beautiful threads to this tapestry.

Carol was born on October 17th, 1957 and passed away on April 15th, 2026 at the age of 68

04/15/2026

Brenda touched the lives of all she met with her beautiful smile and caring spirit. She had never met a stranger and welcomed all to her life in her beautiful, loving way. Many stories survive around Craven County of her wonderful nature; Patients she advocated for all the way to adoptive family she brought into her home.

Brenda was born on October 23rd, 1958 and passed away on April 9th, 2026 at the age of 67