11/09/2024
👉 Do you ever hear people talk about finally "Being Healed?"
👉 Or that cliche, "Hurt People, Hurt People?"
Well... Truth be told, we will always be hurting (or vulnerable to future hurt) in some way.
Not one living human on this earth will ever be "good to go" for no more conflict, disagreement, or misappropriated statement.
We each have imperfect pathologies that will show up in our own lives because of what we have been through, and even if we've worked through them, sometimes we might not communicate something just right!
We will always have room for growth.
We will always have the capacity to grow a little (or a lot!) more.
Please give yourself some grace. We will never be perfect - in how we advance in our own journeys and healing, or in how we interact with those we care about (or with those we don't care so much about).
BUT -
🌟 We can keep showing up.
🌟 We can do our best!
🌟 We can tap into our resources.
🌟 We can engage in our growth.
🌟 We can choose "forward."
🌟 We can believe healing is possible!
🌟 We can cherish the things we DO get right (and be proud of our growth).
🌟 When we see room for improvement, we can challenge ourselves!
🌟 We can keep trying, even when it's hard.
And I'm going to say this, too. Just because you may have been through a LOT... and I mean, a LOT! (I know you probably hold a lot inside you think no one will ever understand about.) It doesn't make you any more of a person out there trying to "hurt people" because of what you've been through. We do what we know to do until we understand how something can be different. And when there has been a lot of time spent being hurt, we should be afforded the time (and resources) we need to learn differently.
Trauma responses (and the way we cope through things / respond) are NORMAL responses to ABNORMAL circumstances. The exciting news? There ARE other ways. And we CAN heal.
🌟 And HEALING ... CAN ... be a LIFESTYLE. 🌟
It is for me.
And I'm here cheering you on! 😊
Post below shared from Susan David
Our anxiety and unhappiness often stems from the fear that we’ll never move beyond the current moment, that certain aspects of our lives—both things we like and those we don’t—will remain “stuck” like this forever. But change is constant. And this change brings with it the possibility of growth.
Give yourself the space to evolve. Don't chain yourself to a single aspect of your identity forever. Instead of saying, "This is who I am," turn your heart toward something bigger: "This is who I strive to be."