02/04/2026
Time to ponder.... I wonder what other perspectives could be about people not liking you since this is just one perspective? 🤔
It’s actually healthy when people don’t like you; it means you’re not a people pleaser and you have boundaries.
You’re no longer shrinking yourself just to make others comfortable.
You’ve learned that saying “no” doesn’t make you mean, selfish, or cold; it makes you self-aware.
The truth is, not everyone will understand or appreciate your growth, especially those who benefited from your lack of boundaries. But that’s not your problem anymore.
So many of our problems come from allowing others to overstep, from trying to keep the peace while quietly betraying ourselves.
We often confuse kindness with tolerance and end up carrying the weight of other people’s disrespect just to avoid conflict.
But real peace doesn’t come from keeping everyone happy; it comes from choosing yourself, even if that choice makes others uncomfortable.
Boundaries aren’t built to push people away; they’re built to protect your energy, your heart, and your sanity.
Be careful what you tolerate, because you’re constantly teaching people how to treat you.
The more you honor your limits, the more you attract people who do the same.
And one day, you’ll look back and realize that the moment you stopped trying to be liked was the moment you truly found peace.
