Visionaries of Living in Color

11/11/2025

🇺🇸 Veterans Day: What Does It Mean to a Veteran? 🇺🇸
“Thank you for your service.”�It’s a phrase many veterans will hear today. But I invite you to pause and think—what does Veterans Day truly mean to a veteran?
For most of us who served, it was never about medals or recognition. It was an honor to serve this great nation—to wake up each day with purpose and a commitment to protect our fellow citizens.
We faced hardship and sacrifice because someone had to… so why not us? When we signed that contract, we knew the weight of what it meant. Yet we did it proudly, because the only colors that mattered were Red, White, and Blue.
Service also means brotherhood and sisterhood. Across generations and uniforms, veterans are connected by a common bond. We don’t move toward danger for glory—we do it for the person beside us. The friendships, loyalty, and love forged in service last a lifetime.
And yes, service means growth. Most veterans will tell you that their lives are better for it. Even those who carry scars—seen or unseen—will say they came out stronger, more disciplined, and more grateful.
So go ahead and say, “Thank you for your service.” Just know that behind that nod or smile is someone who’s proud to have served, proud to have been part of something greater than themselves.
To be among the 1% who answered the call is an honor beyond words.
Happy Veterans Day. 🇺🇸

11/11/2025

09/30/2025

💥 Yes, arguing can actually be GOOD for your marriage.
Sounds strange? In his latest blog, Norman Lloyd, MA, LPC, shares how conflict—when done with intention—can strengthen the bond between partners instead of tearing it apart.

Discover the ground rules, the pitfalls to avoid, and why “argument night” might just be the secret to deeper connection.

👉 Read the full post: Argument Night: The Art of Healthy Conflict in Marriage

By Norman Lloyd, MA, LPC Marital relationships are complicated. They’re not just about love, s*x, kids, school, houses, fun, or entertainment—I could go on. They’re also about disagreements, argume…

09/16/2025

In a season where the headlines feel heavy, a small kindness in Gruene reminded me what’s still strong in America: neighborliness. I went in tired, ate in quiet, and left lighter—because a family I’d never met paid for my meal and my server simply said, “Just pay it forward.”
Read the full story on our blog, Hope in a Small Texas Town.
What’s one small act of kindness you’ve witnessed lately? Share below—we could all use the good.

America feels loud right now. But on a quiet Monday in Gruene, a bartender’s welcome, a waitress’s smile, and a stranger paying my check reminded me: what’s loud isn’t the whole story. Kindness is.…

09/12/2025

From Atlanta to San Antonio ✈️—two cities, two powerful topics, one mission.

We were honored to present for Patriot Benefit Consulting, LLC, a company that goes above and beyond in helping veterans receive accurate, thorough medical assessments for their disability claims. We spoke with their employees and contractors about mental health while working remotely—a topic that’s so relevant in today’s world.

Thank you to Brandy, Casey, and the whole PBA team for inviting us into your world. The engagement, honesty, and heart in the room was inspiring. 💪

And to my partner Norman—I couldn’t ask for a better teammate in this work or in life. Together, we’re bringing the Living in Color energy everywhere we go. 🌈

09/12/2025

✨ Atlanta – S*x Down South Conference

Last week we had the opportunity to present at S*x Down South in Atlanta, a powerful conference that sparks some of the most important conversations around s*xuality and culture.

We shared research on a very complex and often misunderstood area of s*xuality, looking at both the history and lived experiences behind it. With the help of a panel of men willing to share their perspectives directly, the discussion was thought-provoking, sometimes challenging, and deeply meaningful.

Our hope was—and is—to create space for voices that aren’t often heard, and to encourage people to think more critically about the intersections of s*xuality, race, and culture. The dialogue was rich, and it reminded us how necessary these conversations are.

More discussions need to be had, and we’re honored to be part of moving that forward.

*xdownsouth

08/24/2025

This morning we made a little stop at —a sweet family-owned gem that’s all about good vibes and great drinks! 🥤✨ Picked up two delicious energy drinks before our park walk, and it was just the boost we needed. 🌿☀️

One of my favorite parts? Their wall full of inspirational signs—the perfect reminder to keep your spirits high and your mood lifted. 💫💚

If you’re in the area, swing by, grab a drink, and soak up some motivation yourself! 🙌

08/11/2025

07/31/2025

True closeness doesn’t come from avoiding discomfort—it comes from moving through it together.

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07/30/2025

As we hiked the mountains of Colorado on National Climb a Mountain Day, we couldn’t help but reflect on the terrain we’ve navigated in our relationship—breakups, blended family struggles, mismatched needs, and even a year-long separation. As two therapists, you’d think we’d have it all figured out, but learning to love each other fully has been a journey of humility, growth, and showing up. This blog shares the real story of our climb—how we kept finding our way back, and why we believe the best is still yet to come....

As we hiked the mountains of Colorado on National Climb a Mountain Day, we couldn’t help but reflect on the terrain we’ve navigated in our relationship—breakups, blended family struggles, mismatche…