A Functional Life Chiropractic Clinic

02/16/2026

**How Sitting Is the New Smoking**

*A Chiropractor–Neurologist–Life Coach Perspective on the Global Sedentary Epidemic*

“**Sitting is the new smoking**” — once a provocative phrase, now a scientific reality. In the 21st century, we are living in a paradox: despite unprecedented knowledge about health, we sit more than any generation in history.

Desk jobs, long commutes, binge-watching, screen time — together these create a lifestyle that undermines our physical structure, neurologic health, and psychological well-being.

From *neural pathways* to *spinal curves*, and *personal growth trajectories*

prolonged sitting is not just uncomfortable — it’s fundamentally counter-evolutionary.

**A Biomechanical Breakdown: Why Sitting is Toxic to the Body**

Human beings are designed to **stand, walk, and move**. For millions of years, our musculoskeletal system evolved around motion not stagnation.

Sitting, especially for hours a day, disrupts this natural design.

Spinal Misalignment

* The upright spine is structurally supported by *natural S-shaped curves*.
* Prolonged sitting — especially slumped — flattens these curves, leading to:

✔ Increased intervertebral disc pressure
✔ Premature degeneration of spinal joints
✔ Chronic low back pain

Clinically, this is common in patients presenting with early degenerative changes typically found decades later.

Muscle Imbalance and Weakness

In the sitting posture:

* **Hip flexors shorten**
* **Gluteal muscles deactivate**
* **Core musculature weakens**

This creates a cascade:

**Tight front muscles, weak back muscles, unstable spine = chronic discomfort + injury risk.**

Circulatory Stagnation

Sitting compresses blood vessels:

* Reduced blood flow to lower extremities
* Increased risk of venous insufficiency
* Impaired nutrient delivery to tissues

This is why long sitting is medically linked to **deep vein thrombosis (DVT)** and metabolic syndrome components.

Neurological Negatives: What Sitting Does to the Brain

Beyond structure, sitting affects the nervous system.

Reduced Neurotransmitter Activity

Movement releases:
✔ Serotonin
✔ Dopamine
✔ Brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF)

These are critical for:

* Mood regulation
* Cognitive performance
* Neural plasticity

Sedentary behavior lowers these levels, contributing to:
❌ Depression
❌ Anxiety
❌ Cognitive fog

Dysregulated Autonomic Function

The autonomic nervous system thrives on variability and movement. Sitting:

* Impairs vagal tone
* Heightens sympathetic dominance

Result: chronic stress response set at *higher baseline*, leading to anxiety, sleep problems, and systemic inflammation.

Slowed Neural Processing

Exercise improves:

* Reaction time
* Attention
* Motor coordination
But extended sitting is associated with:
⛔ Slower cognitive processing
⛔ Reduced executive functioning

Metabolic Mayhem: Sitting and Systemic Disease

Insulin Resistance

Muscle inactivity decreases GLUT-4 translocation — a key glucose transporter — leading to:
➡ Elevated blood glucose
➡ Increased risk of type 2 diabetes

Dyslipidemia

Reduced lipoprotein lipase activity when sitting:

* Less HDL (good cholesterol)
* Higher triglycerides
This is the same metabolic pattern seen in early cardiovascular disease.

Chronic Inflammation

Sedentary lifestyle increases pro-inflammatory cytokines:

* TNF-α
* IL-6

Inflammation underlies:
✔ Heart disease
✔ Autoimmune disorders
✔ Cancer risk escalation

The Psychological Cost: Sitting Sabotages Well-Being

As a life-coach I see that physical habits shape emotional states.

Embodied Psychology

Poor posture correlates with:

* Lower confidence
* Reduced assertiveness
* Negative self-perception

The body and mind are deeply interconnected. Slumped posture literally feeds *negative neural loops*.

Motivation and Energy

Movement generates:
✔ Endorphins
✔ Positive feedback loops
Sedentary behavior breeds:
⛔ Inertia
⛔ Mental stagnation

Sitting in Society: Why It’s So Hard to Break

The modern world is engineered for sitting:

* Cars replace walking
* Computers replace movement
* Streaming replaces outdoor activity

This is not just behavior — it’s *environmental conditioning*.

A Clinician’s Prescription: What to Do Now**

If sitting is the new smoking, what is the antidote?

Move Every 30 Minutes

• Stand
• Walk 2–5 minutes
• Stretch your hips and chest

This reverses:
✔ Vascular stagnation
✔ Neuromuscular inhibition

Posture First

* Chest up, shoulders back
* Neutral spine
* Pelvis slightly anterior

Every repositioning sends the brain a *new motor map* — reinforcing healthier movement patterns.

Incorporate Intentional Movement

✔ Strength training (3–4× per week)
✔ Daily walking or cycling
✔ Yoga or mobility drills

Movement is *therapy and prevention*.

Break Sedentary Cycles

• Replace one hour of screen time per day with walking.
• Schedule active breaks at work.
• Use standing desks when appropriate.

Embodied Mindfulness

As a life-coach, I consider movement a *neuropsychological anchor*. Practice:

* Breath awareness
* Grounded walking
* Body scanning

These improve both mental and physical equilibrium.

Conclusion: Movement Is Medicine**

Just as smoking introduced a powerful and insidious risk across systems, so too does extended sitting.

It impacts:
✔ Musculoskeletal integrity
✔ Metabolic balance
✔ Neurologic function
✔ Emotional health
✔ Cognitive performance

But here’s the hopeful part:

**movement is accessible to everyone**. You don’t need elite athleticism — you need intention, consistency, and structural awareness.

**Move more. Sit less. Live fully.**

02/11/2026

By request

Dr. Fred Clary's Podcast · Episode

02/08/2026

Correct Breathing Mechanics

Low, Slow, and Neurologically Organized Breathing for Health

Breathing Is a Primary Neurological Function

Breathing is not merely a way to move oxygen—it is a foundational neurological rhythm that organizes posture, movement, autonomic balance, and spinal stability. Correct breathing mechanics are slow, efficient, and driven from the lower abdomen and pelvic diaphragm, not the chest or neck.

When breathing mechanics are correct, the body operates in a state of efficiency and adaptability. When they are disturbed, compensatory patterns emerge that affect the spine, nervous system, and overall health.
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What Correct Breathing Looks Like

1. Breathing Is Low and Slow

Correct breathing occurs at a relaxed pace, with smooth transitions between inhalation and exhalation. Rapid or shallow breathing activates stress pathways and disrupts neurological balance.

Inhalation is quiet and unforced

Exhalation is longer than inhalation

There is no visible lifting of the shoulders or upper chest

This breathing pattern supports parasympathetic nervous system dominance, which is essential for healing, digestion, and regulation.
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2. The Lower Abdomen Moves First

In correct breathing mechanics, the lower abdomen gently expands first during inhalation. This movement reflects proper descent of the respiratory diaphragm and coordination with the pelvic diaphragm.

Key characteristics:

The belly expands before the rib cage

The movement is subtle, not exaggerated

The chest remains relatively quiet

Upper-chest or clavicular breathing is a compensatory pattern, often driven by stress, trauma, pain, or neurological imbalance.
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3. The Pelvic Diaphragm Is a Primary Driver

The pelvic diaphragm (pelvic floor) works in synchronized motion with the respiratory diaphragm.

As you inhale, the pelvic diaphragm descends slightly

As you exhale, it ascends and recoils

This creates a pressure-regulating system for the spine and organs

This coordinated motion is essential for:

Core stability

Lumbar spine support

Intra-abdominal pressure regulation

Continence and pelvic health

Breathing that bypasses the pelvic diaphragm leads to instability, compensation, and chronic stress patterns.
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4. The Diaphragms Work as a Unit

True breathing is not isolated to one muscle. It is an integrated diaphragmatic system, including:

Respiratory diaphragm

Pelvic diaphragm

Transverse abdominis

Deep spinal stabilizers

When this system is neurologically coordinated, the spine is supported without tension, and posture becomes effortless rather than forced.
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What Happens When Breathing Is Dysfunctional

Poor breathing mechanics commonly present as:

Chest or shoulder breathing

Chronic neck and upper-back tension

Low back instability or pain

Fatigue and poor recovery

Anxiety or heightened stress response

Pelvic floor dysfunction

These patterns are not merely “habits”—they are neurological adaptations to stress, injury, or spinal dysfunction.
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How Functional Analysis Chiropractic Technique (FACT) Addresses Breathing

1. FACT Identifies Neurological Interference

FACT does not chase symptoms. It evaluates:

Spinal segments affecting autonomic regulation

Neurological tone and adaptability

Postural and movement-based compensation patterns

Breathing dysfunction is often a downstream effect of neurological imbalance, not the primary cause.
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2. FACT Restores Neurological Organization

Through precise, neurologically specific adjustments, FACT:

Reduces interference in the nervous system

Improves brain–body communication

Allows the diaphragm and pelvic diaphragm to re-coordinate naturally

When the nervous system is regulated, correct breathing re-emerges spontaneously, without forced drills or conscious effort.
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3. FACT Supports Long-Term Stability

Rather than teaching patients to “hold posture” or “force breathing,” FACT restores:

Automatic low-abdominal breathing

Natural core engagement

Balanced autonomic tone

This is critical because true health is automatic, not effort-driven.
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Why This Matters for Health

Correct breathing mechanics:

Improve oxygen efficiency

Reduce chronic stress load

Support spinal and pelvic stability

Enhance digestion, sleep, and recovery

Improve emotional regulation

FACT helps the body remember how to breathe correctly by restoring the neurological environment in which proper breathing is the default.
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In Summary

Correct breathing is:

Low and slow

Initiated by the lower abdomen

Driven by coordinated diaphragmatic motion

Neurologically organized, not forced

Functional Analysis Chiropractic Technique plays a vital role by correcting the neurological dysfunctions that disrupt breathing in the first place, allowing the body to return to its natural, efficient design.

02/05/2026

When a patient and doctor challenges me.

Doc whom brought her to my seminar: " Shes got XYZ and been told by the best docs in Indianapolis she will never walk"

Patient: " Yeah those losers said I could never walk...But I just don't know... What are YOU going to do different?(Fred is busy checking a few little things)"

Fred: " Make you walk...better get a video...now stand up..lets go and walk (taps in patterns every step)"

02/05/2026

"If you want to conquer the anxiety of life, live in the moment, live in the breath."

Dr. Fred Clary's Podcast · Episode

02/03/2026

Why Relaxation Is a Biological Necessity, Not a Lifestyle Preference

From a clinical standpoint, relaxation is not a vague concept—it is a measurable physiological state with direct effects on neural signaling, endocrine output, immune function, musculoskeletal tone, and cognitive performance.

When relaxation is absent or inconsistent, the body enters a state of maladaptive vigilance, which modern neuroscience recognizes as a primary driver of chronic pain, mood disorders, fatigue syndromes, and degenerative stress-related disease.
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The Neurobiology of Relaxation

1. Autonomic Nervous System Regulation

The autonomic nervous system (ANS) operates through two primary branches:

Sympathetic Nervous System (SNS)
Governs threat response, arousal, muscle readiness, and energy mobilization.

Parasympathetic Nervous System (PNS)
Governs digestion, immune repair, cellular regeneration, emotional regulation, and sleep.

Chronic stress biases the system toward sympathetic dominance, resulting in:

Elevated baseline cortisol

Increased norepinephrine firing

Reduced vagal tone

Impaired heart rate variability (HRV)

Relaxation activates parasympathetic pathways, particularly via the vagus nerve, restoring balance and improving communication between the brainstem, limbic system, and prefrontal cortex.

Clinically observed outcomes include:

Lower resting heart rate

Improved HRV (a strong predictor of longevity and resilience)

Reduced inflammatory cytokine production
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2. HPA Axis Modulation

The Hypothalamic–Pituitary–Adrenal (HPA) axis is the body’s central stress-response system.

Under chronic activation:

Cortisol rhythms flatten

Morning cortisol spikes diminish

Evening cortisol remains elevated

Sleep architecture degrades

Scheduled relaxation helps re-entrain circadian cortisol rhythms, allowing:

Proper melatonin release

Deep sleep (slow-wave sleep) restoration

Glymphatic clearance of metabolic waste from the brain

This is not psychological—it is endocrine regulation.
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The Neurology of Pain, Tension, and Recovery

1. Central Sensitization and Pain Thresholds

Chronic stress lowers pain thresholds by:

Increasing dorsal horn neuron excitability

Reducing descending inhibitory control from the brain

Amplifying nociceptive signaling

Relaxation reverses this by:

Activating endogenous opioid pathways

Increasing GABAergic inhibition

Restoring cortical modulation of pain perception

This is why patients often experience pain relief without structural change once relaxation becomes consistent.
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2. Motor Tone and Spinal Function (Chiropractic Insight)

Stress increases gamma motor neuron activity, leading to elevated baseline muscle tone.

This causes:

Joint compression

Reduced range of motion

Decreased proprioceptive accuracy

Resistance to corrective input (chiropractic or exercise)

Relaxation:

Lowers gamma gain

Normalizes muscle spindle activity

Improves joint play and adaptability

Allows adjustments and rehab to integrate neurologically

A guarded nervous system resists correction.

A relaxed nervous system accepts input.
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The Psychology of Relaxation and Cognitive Control

1. Prefrontal Cortex Restoration

Under stress, the brain shifts control away from the prefrontal cortex (reason, planning, impulse control) toward the amygdala (threat detection, emotional reactivity).

Relaxation:

Restores prefrontal dominance

Improves decision-making under pressure

Reduces emotional reactivity

Enhances attention regulation

This is why relaxed individuals perform better—not because they care less, but because their brain is online.
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2. Stress, Identity, and Behavioral Burnout

Psychologically, chronic stress narrows identity:

People become reactive instead of reflective

Behavior becomes survival-driven

Motivation degrades into obligation

Scheduled relaxation interrupts this loop, allowing:

Cognitive reframing

Emotional processing

Memory consolidation

Long-term goal clarity

From a coaching standpoint, relaxation restores agency.
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Why Relaxation Must Be Scheduled (Neurological Learning)

The nervous system is pattern-based. If calm is unpredictable, the brain interprets it as unsafe or temporary. When relaxation is scheduled, it becomes a learned, trusted state.

Neurologically, this creates:

Faster state-shifting (stress → calm)

Reduced recovery time after stress

Increased resilience under load

This is neuroplastic training ,(nervous system strengthen) not indulgence.
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Practical Clinical Framework for Scheduled Relaxation

Daily (10–20 minutes)

Purpose: Parasympathetic activation and tone training

Nasal breathing (4–6 second inhale, 6–8 second exhale)

Stillness or quiet prayer

Supine rest with legs elevated

No screens, no stimulation

Weekly

Purpose: System-wide reset

Nature exposure

Gentle, non-goal-oriented movement

Silence or low sensory input

Consistency Rules

Same time of day if possible

Predictability matters more than duration

Calm must be intentional, not accidental
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Long-Term Clinical Outcomes

When relaxation becomes routine, patients consistently show:

Improved sleep efficiency

Reduced pain intensity and frequency

Greater emotional stability

Improved immune resilience

Faster recovery from stressors

Better adherence to healthy habits

These outcomes are measurable and repeatable.
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Final Integrated Clinical Takeaway

Relaxation is not passive. It is active neurological maintenance.

A nervous system that never down-regulates will eventually malfunction—regardless of strength, discipline, or intention.

But when relaxation is practiced deliberately, the body regains its innate capacity for regulation, healing, and adaptability.

In clinical terms:

Stress loads the system.

Relaxation restores the system.

Health depends on both.

02/01/2026

🧠 Why Diet Matters in Chronic Pain

Chronic pain isn’t only “structural” — it’s neuroinflammatory, metabolic, and immune-mediated. Food can either fuel inflammation and nerve sensitization or help quieten pain pathways and support healing.

Diet influences:

Inflammatory signaling (cytokines, prostaglandins)

Neurotransmitter balance (serotonin, GABA)

Oxidative stress and mitochondrial health

Gut-brain axis (immune modulation, microbiome- heathy gut bacteria)
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🥦 Core Principles of Anti-Pain Eating

✅ 1. Anti-Inflammatory Focus

Chronic pain often stems from low-grade inflammation.

Foods that lower inflammation help many pain syndromes (fibromyalgia, neuropathy, osteoarthritis, low back pain).

Eat more:

Omega-3 fats (wild salmon, sardines, flaxseed, chia)

Colorful fruits/berries (antioxidants, polyphenols)

Leafy greens (spinach, kale, Swiss chard)

Turmeric & ginger (curcumin and gingerols)

Limit:

Refined sugar & sweetened beverages

Industrial seed oils (corn, soybean, canola)

Processed meats

Trans fats
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🧬 2. Stabilize Blood Sugar

Spikes and dips in glucose amplify pain perception —

especially in conditions like chronic fatigue, diabetic neuropathy, and fibromyalgia.

Tips:

Pair carbs with protein and fiber

Choose low GI foods (beans, oats, quinoa)

Avoid white flour and sugary snacks
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🥩 3. Prioritize Healthy Fats

Fats are essential for nerve insulation (myelin) and hormonal balance.

The right fat profile supports neuronal repair and reduces nociceptor sensitization.

Best choices

Extra virgin olive oil

Avocado

Nuts & seeds

Wild fatty fish
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🥔 4. Support the Gut-Brain Axis

Up to 80% of immune cells reside in the gut lining. Dysbiosis is linked to pain amplification.

Probiotic & prebiotic foods

Yogurt, kefir, sauerkraut, kimchi

Garlic, onions, leeks, asparagus

Bananas, Jerusalem artichokes
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🧂 5. Avoid Common Sensitizers

Some foods can act as pro-inflammatory triggers for certain individuals.

Often problematic:

Gluten (in some chronic pain populations)

Dairy (for lactose-sensitive)

MSG and artificial additives

Excess caffeine (can heighten pain perception)
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📋 Top Diet Patterns for Chronic Pain

🟢 1) Mediterranean-Style Diet

Why it works:

High in omega-3s, antioxidants, plant foods

Moderate lean proteins

Proven to reduce inflammatory markers

Daily plate model:

Half vegetables + fruits

Quarter whole grains/beans

Quarter lean protein/fish

Olive oil instead of butter

Practicals:

Breakfast: oat bowl with berries & chia

Lunch: grilled salmon salad with olive oil

Dinner: lentil stew + greens
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🟡 2) Low-Inflammatory (Modified Paleo)

Good for:

Autoimmune pain

Fibromyalgia

IBS overlap

What’s included:

Lean meats

Vegetables

Fruits

Nuts, seeds

Avoid

Grains

Legumes (if sensitive)

Dairy (optional)
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🟠 3) Whole-Food Plant-Based

Why

Rich in fiber and antioxidants

Improves insulin sensitivity

Supports microbiome (good gut bacteria )diversity

Try

Beans & lentils

Brown rice/quinoa

All vegetables and fruit

Minimal oils
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🍽️ Practical Daily Routine

🌞 Morning

Warm lemon water

Protein + fiber breakfast

Example: Greek yogurt with blueberries + walnuts

🍵 Mid-Day Tips

Herbal teas (turmeric/ginger)

Hydrate consistently

🍴 Dinner

Balanced plate (veggies + lean protein + healthy fat)

Add anti-inflammatory spices

🌙 Before Bed

Magnesium-rich snack (almonds, pumpkin seeds)

Chamomile or valerian tea
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🧠 Nutrients Especially Helpful for Pain

Nutrient Why It Helps Sources

Omega-3s
Reduces inflammatory cytokines :
Salmon, sardines, flaxseed

Curcumin
Inhibits COX & NF-κB pathways :
Turmeric (+ black pepper)

Magnesium
Muscle relaxation, neural calm :
Almonds, greens

Vitamin D
Immune modulation :
Sun + fortified foods

B Vitamins
Nerve repair :
Meat, eggs, whole grains

Supplementation should be personalized with clinician guidance.
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🧘 Lifestyle Pairings (Chiropractic + Neurology)

Diet works best with supportive lifestyle habits:

✔ Sleep optimization (7–9 hrs)
✔ Regular mobility and strengthening exercises
✔ Neuromodulation practices (deep breathing, meditation)
✔ Reducing chronic stress
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⚠️ Red Flags & When to See a Chiropractic Neurologist

You should talk to your clinician if you notice:

Worsening pain despite diet changes

New nerve-related symptoms (numbness, weakness)

Unintended weight loss

Severe GI symptoms
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🧩 Quick Shopping Checklist

✔ Wild fish
✔ Colorful veggies & berries
✔ Nuts & seeds
✔ Olive oil
✔ Herbs & spices (turmeric, ginger)
✔ Whole grains / low GI carbs
✔ Probiotic foods
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🧠 Final Takeaways

Food is medicine for chronic pain.

Eat in ways that reduce inflammation, support nervous system health, stabilize blood sugar, and nurture the gut.

Even small daily changes can make measurable improvements in pain levels and overall well-being.

01/28/2026

By request...

Dr. Fred Clary's Podcast · Episode

01/26/2026

Why Chaos and Collective Trauma Create Such Powerful Emotions

An integrated neurological, psychological, and body-based perspective

When societies experience chaos—war, civil unrest, mass displacement, prolonged threat—the fear people feel is not weakness, hysteria, or moral failure.

It is biology doing exactly what it evolved to do.

The human nervous system was not designed for endless uncertainty. It was designed to detect danger quickly, mobilize energy, and then return to safety.

When danger feels continuous, invisible, or unpredictable, the system does not shut off—and that’s where strong emotions come from.

What Happens in the Brain During Chaos

1. The Survival Brain Takes Over

The brain has layers. In crisis, the oldest layers dominate:

Brainstem (basic survival)

Amygdala (threat detection)

Hypothalamus (stress hormones)

These systems activate before logic, values, or political beliefs. When threat is perceived:

Heart rate increases

Muscles tense

Attention narrows

Time perception distorts

This is why people may seem:

Overreactive

Irrational

Hyper-emotional

Black-and-white in thinking

Their thinking brain (prefrontal cortex) is partially offline—not by choice, but by neurochemistry.

Why Some People React More Strongly Than Others

People don’t respond to chaos equally because nervous systems are shaped by history.

Factors that amplify emotional reactions:

Prior trauma (even unrelated)

Childhood instability or unpredictability

Previous exposure to violence or loss

Chronic stress, illness, or pain

Lack of social support

Sleep deprivation and poor nutrition

For these individuals, chaos doesn’t feel “new”—it feels familiar, and the nervous system reacts faster and harder.

Others may appear calm not because they care less, but because:

Their nervous system has higher resilience

They have strong meaning frameworks (faith, mission, identity)

They’ve trained regulation through discipline, sport, or hardship

They dissociate or emotionally shut down (which looks like calm but isn’t always healthy)

Why Emotions Become So Intense and Polarized

In prolonged threat:

The brain prioritizes certainty over accuracy

Group identity becomes a safety mechanism

Nuance feels dangerous

“Us vs. them” thinking increases

This isn’t ideology—it’s neurobiology.

Strong emotions serve a purpose:

Fear mobilizes

Anger creates energy and boundaries

Grief signals loss and calls for support

Problems arise when these states become chronic, not when they appear.

What This Does to the Body (Often Overlooked)

From a chiropractic and neurologic perspective, trauma is stored in tissues, not just thoughts.

Common physical effects of prolonged chaos:

Neck and jaw tension

Shallow breathing

Digestive problems

Headaches

Back pain

Fatigue

Immune suppression

The body stays braced—as if danger could appear at any moment.

You can’t “think” your way out of this. The body must be addressed directly.

Why Reason Alone Doesn’t Calm People

This is critical.

You cannot argue someone out of fear when fear is physiological.

Logic requires:

Oxygen

Blood flow to the frontal lobes

A regulated nervous system

Until the body feels safer, facts bounce off.

That’s why:

Telling people to “relax” fails

Mocking fear backfires

Shaming emotional reactions deepens them

What Actually Helps During Collective Trauma

1. Regulation Before Interpretation

Slow breathing, movement, posture, prayer, physical grounding—these restore neural balance.

2. Meaning Over Control

The nervous system settles when suffering has purpose. People with meaning endure chaos better than those seeking certainty.

3. Connection Without Conversion

Being heard calms threat circuits more than being persuaded.

4. Routine as Medicine

Predictable rhythms—sleep, meals, training, rituals—signal safety to the brain.

5. Action Over Rumination

Small, disciplined action restores agency and reduces helplessness chemistry.

A Final Perspective

Strong emotional reactions during chaos are not signs of moral failure or intellectual weakness. They are signs of a nervous system working overtime to protect life.

The goal is not to eliminate emotion—but to:

Regulate the body

Restore meaning

Rebuild trust

Re-engage reason after safety returns

That is how individuals—and societies—recover.

01/21/2026

This is a good one, warm up for life and relationships!

Dr. Fred Clary's Podcast · Episode

01/18/2026

Because I was asked many times this week...

Conviction vs. Trauma-Driven Certainty

A neuroscientific and behavioral analysis

Written from the perspective of a life coach and neurologist

Introduction: not all certainty is the same

In coaching, leadership formation, and clinical neurology, I often hear people say, “I’m certain.”
But the brain asks a deeper question:

Is this certainty coming from integration—or from injury?

Both conviction and trauma-driven certainty feel powerful.
Both can be persuasive.
Both can spread rapidly.

Yet neurologically, psychologically, and behaviorally, they arise from opposite nervous-system states—and they produce radically different outcomes in individuals, families, churches, and societies.

Understanding the difference is not optional. It is essential for ethical leadership, cultural authority, and personal healing.

1. Defining the two states

Conviction (integrated certainty)

Conviction is coherent belief anchored in regulation.

It emerges when:

Belief is aligned with lived experience

Emotion and reason are integrated

The nervous system is stable under pressure

Conviction can be challenged without collapsing.

Trauma-driven certainty (defensive certainty)

Trauma-driven certainty is rigid belief anchored in threat.

It emerges when:

A belief protects against fear, shame, or chaos

Ambiguity feels dangerous

The nervous system is locked in survival mode

Trauma-certainty cannot tolerate challenge—it experiences disagreement as attack.

2. The nervous system tells the truth before the mouth does

From a neurological standpoint, these two certainties come from different autonomic states.

Conviction

Ventral vagal dominance (regulated social engagement)

Stable heart-rate variability

Calm, resonant vocal tone

Open facial musculature

Ability to pause and reflect

Trauma-driven certainty

Sympathetic overactivation (fight/flight) or

Dorsal vagal shutdown (freeze/collapse)

Shallow or erratic breathing

Vocal sharpness or monotony

Facial rigidity or emotional flatness

You can feel the difference within seconds—long before words register.

This is why conviction calms rooms, while trauma-certainty polarizes them.

3. The role of emotion in belief formation

Neuroscience has decisively shown that belief is not formed by logic alone.

Dr. Antonio Damasio

( Portuguese neuroscientist. He is currently the David Dornsife Chair in Neuroscience, as well as Professor of Psychology, Philosophy, and Neurology, at the University of Southern California, and, additionally, an adjunct professor at the Salk Institute...he's a Ninja)

demonstrated that emotion is required for decision-making.

Without emotional integration, humans cannot choose—even when logic is intact.

Conviction

Emotion supports belief

Feelings are informative, not controlling

The person can say: “I feel strongly, but I’m not threatened.”

Trauma-driven certainty

Emotion drives belief

Feelings override evidence

The person cannot separate belief from identity

Trauma turns belief into armor.

4. Predictive processing: why rigidity feels “right” to traumatized brains

The brain is a prediction engine. Its primary job is to reduce uncertainty.

In conviction:

The brain tolerates ambiguity

Predictions are flexible

Updating beliefs does not threaten identity

In trauma:

Uncertainty equals danger

The brain locks into rigid narratives

Certainty becomes a survival strategy

Trauma-driven certainty feels urgently right because it reduces perceived threat—not because it is true.

5. How each spreads socially (contagion dynamics)

Earlier we established that conviction is contagious. Trauma-certainty is also contagious—but by a different mechanism.

Conviction spreads through:

Nervous-system regulation

Emotional coherence

Perceived safety

Embodied consistency

People feel grounded in its presence.

Trauma-certainty spreads through:

Emotional arousal

Fear signaling

Us-vs-them framing

Hyper-certainty under stress

People feel activated, agitated, or compelled—not at peace.

This distinction is critical in:

Religious movements

Political polarization

Family systems

Online discourse

6. Speech patterns: how the brain leaks its origin

You can often identify the source of certainty by how it speaks.

Conviction language:

“I may be wrong, but…”

“This has held under pressure.”

“I’m open, but not unanchored.”

Calm repetition, not escalation

Trauma-certainty language:

Absolutes with urgency (“always,” “never”)

Moralized threat language

Inability to pause

Escalation when questioned

Conviction invites examination.

Trauma-certainty demands compliance.

7. The cost test: suffering reveals the difference

Both conviction and trauma-certainty may endure suffering—but for different reasons.

Conviction:

Accepts suffering without needing to justify it

Remains internally stable

Does not require enemies to stay coherent

Trauma-certainty:

Needs opposition to remain organized

Interprets suffering as proof of threat

Intensifies rigidity under pressure

This is why champions inspire calm—while extremists escalate violence.

8. Why trauma-certainty often masquerades as faith, zeal, or strength

Trauma-certainty often looks like:

Passion

Moral clarity

Fearless rhetoric

Intensity

But neurologically, intensity ≠ integration.

As a clinician and coach, I look for one question:

Can this person stay regulated while being questioned?

If not, certainty is protecting something fragile.

9. Integration: conviction is regulated courage

True conviction is not loud. It is regulated courage.

It is the nervous system saying:

“I am safe enough to stand firm without forcing agreement.”

Trauma-certainty says:

“If this belief collapses, I collapse.”

That difference changes everything.

10. Practical self-assessment (clinical & coaching tool)

Ask yourself:

1. Can I stay calm when challenged?

2. Does disagreement feel threatening—or interesting?

3. Can I hold my belief and conviction without needing others to submit?

4. Do I feel grounded—or activated—when I speak?

Your nervous system already knows the answer.

Fred's final thoughts

Conviction is contagious because it is integrated truth—carried by a regulated nervous system, coherent emotion, and lived alignment.

Trauma-driven certainty is contagious because it is unresolved threat—carried by urgency, fear, and rigidity.

Both persuade.
Only one heals.

As leaders, healers, parents, neighbors and teachers, the ethical task is not merely to ask:

What do I believe?

But:

What state of nervous system am I transmitting to others?

Because people will catch that—long before they adopt your words or concepts