02/15/2026
I’m not gonna lie, y’all probably know I’m a “Lover Girl.” Always have, always will be. Can’t help it. I’ve always romanticized seeing my Dad placing flowers on my Mom’s nightstand each week.
Even though my heart has been broken more than once, and I’ve made tough decisions to leave toxic relationships, I’m still open.
Yes, I’ve closed off my heart multiple times, swam through oceans of healing, and rebuilt myself in quiet ways. But I still believe in love.
My cousin LaRhonda reminds us younger cousins “You are single until married.” And listen, I’ve been married, engaged, I’ve had long-term, committed partnerships. Still, as I sit in Mexico and move through this new season of my life, I’m doing it alone.
I’ve been in this Faith doing life alone phase before. It gives me spaciousness, time to reflect, moments of deep clarity, and discernment when I connect with a man that stimulates my Virgo interest.
It would be sweet to have masculine energy dancing with my feminine waves, even if we don’t have all the details figured out. However, I’ve learned a few things in my adulthood…even when I hide from my own intuition.
I deserve the kind of relationship that feels safe, respectful, consistent, steady, honest, and emotionally present. I can give that all day long because I’ve seen in my own reality from birth.
So as I gaze into the Caribbean sea, I’ll keep writing about love in all forms, creating magic to support others on their wellbeing journey, holding space for my own heart, maintaining a loving foundation of safety for myself, exploring the depths of connection to my soul, cultivating expanded realms of spiritual intimacy with myself, and yes, honoring my worth with the highest level of respect for my desires.
Swipe to read a taste of my work, and enjoy a few of my sexy feminine moments over last few months as this “Spiritually Fly™ Lover Girl” moved through the Caribbean.