01/25/2026
My Two Cents…
Advocacy Requires Regulation, Not Just Reaction
The murder of ICU nurse Alex Peretti is devastating.
It’s frightening.
It’s infuriating.
It’s disorienting.
And it should deeply disturb us.
There is nothing about this that needs to be softened or spiritualized.
This is a crisis.
And it is appropriate for fear, anger, grief, and uncertainty to surface.
Our nervous systems are activated — period.
And I want to be very clear:
This is not a “stay calm” message.
This is not a “be positive” message.
This is not a “bypass your feelings” message.
This is a be honest about your emotions message — and then be organized with them.
Because emotion is not the problem.
Unprocessed emotion without direction is.
Nursing is political.
Healthcare is political.
Nurses are the largest workforce in this country.
And while we all hold different personal politics, we share a professional reality:
Our safety, our labor, our lives, and our systems are shaped by policy.
Advocacy and activism will look different for everyone.
Not everyone will march.
Not everyone will protest.
Not everyone will organize publicly.
And that’s okay.
But whatever form of action you choose, it must come from a grounded place — not a dysregulated one.
Here’s the framework I believe in:
First: nervous system first aid.
Name what you feel.
Acknowledge the fear.
Honor the anger.
Recognize the overwhelm.
Regulation is not suppression — it’s awareness.
Then: organized action.
Advocacy. Policy engagement. Education. Community work. Coalition-building. Writing. Speaking. Supporting families. Supporting reform. Supporting change.
And when you come home from that work — you rest.
Because rest is not disengagement.
Rest is resistance.
Rest is refueling.
Rest is how you sustain the fight.
This will not be a one-day issue.
This will not be a one-week conversation.
And this will not be solved by outrage alone.
We cannot lose ourselves in the fight.
We cannot burn ourselves out in the name of justice.
And we cannot confuse emotional activation with strategic action.
Emotion is a compass.
But regulation is the GPS.
We honor Alex Peretti not only with grief —
but with organized, sustainable, grounded action that protects life, safety, and humanity in this profession.
That’s my two cents.