01/06/2021
Are you planning to diet this year to get your body back after baby?
Can we encourage you not to?
It's not that we want to discourage "healthy eating," just discourage unhealthy dieting. And to discourage the moralizing of food as "good" or "bad" and dismantle the pressure to "get your body back." Food is food.
There's no going back. Another human took up residence in your body and your body was permanently changed. How could it not be? Besides, you don't want to erase the signs that they were there.
Forget getting your body back. You can want strength and health and energy and make choices that can help with such goals but there's no going back. And food isn't good or evil, it is just food.
Respect your body. Respect means caring for it, appreciating it, seeing it, recognizing the work it does, feeding it. You may not be happy with your body, you can have disappointments, you can struggle to love it. But to respect it you have to ask where those thoughts come from and are those values more important than the value your body brings?
We're all in different places in our journey and I won't shame anyone struggling to love or respect their bodies. I hope though that we can each work on living the understanding that we are worthy just the way we are.
I am enough.
You are enough.
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