Aria

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07/07/2021

When I set to read the book “the life-changing magic of tidying up” the Japanese art of decluttering and organizing by Marie Kondo, got to page 10 and read on the sentence “you can’t tidy if you’ve never learned how” - it’s not on me if I don’t know something all I can do is learn more- when someone tells you that your house is not organized it’s not your fault and you can do something about it you would want to keep reading too. Link to full blog in bio❤️

07/05/2021

new blog pose- How to set your home environment so it remains organized -LINK IN BIO Maria Montessori calls the environment in which the child resides “the additional guide,” within the triangle formed between parent-child-environment. The environment can provide guidance for coding and implementing a code of conduct, as well as setting a natural boundary.

07/02/2021

Transitions and changes are an integral part of our lives. Sometimes they are dramatic. They invite feelings of uncertainty, confusion and anxiety. Life is in motion and we move within it. When you tell the child only a part or not telling certain details, you create a situation where the child knows that "something" is happening but he does not know what is going to happen so he is forced to search for information particles and creates an image that in most situations will not be correct and sometimes even distorted.

The lack of knowledge or misconception of reality can affect what the child experiences or feels. Often unexpected changes can cause all kinds of regressions (such as regression in diaper weaning for example) Preparation and communication are very important for the proper development of the child. Changes are golden opportunities to train children in dealing successfully with changes.

06/30/2021

Punishment is the cessation or deprivation of a child's enjoyment
When you understand that it is a punishment, you understand that the punishment is a violent act. An act that is only possible because right now the one that can deprive your child of the pleasure he craves.

Punishment is an act that may leave a scar on a child's soul. It does not teach quality of life, but teaches that power achieves results.

06/28/2021

The urgency to correct the mistake here and now creates a conversation that does not really teach the child. All life is laid out before you to teach him you do not have to do it now. Perhaps you are currently feeling a contradiction: on the one hand it is your job to teach the child how to behave, on the other hand, if you do not correct him when he is wrong, then when? - When he will be free to listen and internalize and for that you will need to remember the correction you want to help him make and alert him before it happens again.

06/25/2021

If a child hears "good job" every time he succeeds in doing something, those words will become transparent and worthless. He did not learn what moved you in the situation, he did not learn what stunned you, he, in fact, did not learn anything from what you wanted to tell him. He may know why he was amazing right now, but, you have a chance to add on to what he already knows.
When you are looking for something to encourage your child - stick to the facts, use what you really see. Like any child your child is hungry for approval but your responsibility is not to respond to that hunger but to create such meaningful encouragement that will build in him self-confidence and recognition of his unique abilities and complete the process and construction of inner encouragement.

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06/23/2021

♡ 𝐊𝐢𝐝𝐊𝐫𝐚𝐟𝐭 𝐏𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐆𝐢𝐟𝐭𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲 ♡

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06/20/2021

“A father is a person you look up to you no matter how tall you grow” and that is the kind of parent you are, to our children. So thankful for having you in our lives. Happy Father’s Day love.

06/14/2021

If you understand that your pool of self-discipline is small and limited, my good news to you is this: there is an effective method that will replace the need to exercise self-discipline for this method called rituals
Consistent actions that are repeated at regular times and in a similar manner. Your ritual will most often be an expression of the values that are important to you. When the Ritual is assimilated, it will become an automatic behavior in you. You will find yourself arguing less and less with yourself whether to perform the Ritual or not, because it will be part of your daily or weekly routine.
See example: It is important for you to promote the value of knowledge expansion and development
Here is the process you need to go through

Think of rituals you want to bring into your life
I recommend starting with one. After completing 30 days you can add two each month at the beginning it will certainly not be simple but the joy, energy, quiet and of course the feeling of victory and success that are created when the habit is assimilated are worth the process.

06/13/2021

Principles for a forever neat home with children⁣⁣

06/11/2021

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06/08/2021

The answer “it depends” is always right obviously in some aspect of life you have a lot of disciplined so maybe at work you do everything on time, you’re never late but you don’t have such discipline in nutrition or activities aspects so when you look at your life, all of it, how much of it consumes your complete discipline? Now after answering this with all honesty
I can send you a good read- this research Why Self-Discipline Is Overrated: The (Troubling) Theory and Practice of Control from Within By Alfie Kohn Or better yet I can tell you that it’s not important how much self-discipline you have The system that will replace the need to activate your self discipline is called rituals.

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