05/08/2022
To all the hard working mamas, I hope you feel appreciated.
To all those in a difficult spot with your mother or your children, I hope you feel some peace.
To all of you feel disappointed, guilty, angry, frustrated, sad, grateful, joyful, indifferent, confused, lonely, ecstatic, loved - and everything and anything else, I see you.
My hope for you if you struggle with today for any reason that you can:
Find some grace wherever you are on the spectrum of a "mother relationship".
It can be so very hard and complicated and wonderful and awful - often in the span of an hour.
Mothering takes many forms and it's always hard work, hopefully a labor of love in some way.
I hope that if you need healing in a mothering relationship (as a daughter, mother, mother to be, hoping to be a mom, the list goes on) that you can find a safe space to do some unpacking and healing.
If you're feeling the joy of motherhood today, I hope you have the time and space to really soak up those sweet moments of appreciation and love.
If you're feeling let down or left out because you're underappreciated or being a mother hasn't worked out for you in some way - the list goes on from infertility to pregnancy loss to divorce to child loss to just feeling empty from giving so much to your family or community, to name just a few - I hope you can trust that you still matter and are seen, even if it's not being shown in the way you'd hoped.
I for one am solo parenting this weekend and this day has been so hard for me since I was a kid.
On the Official Mommy Day Off I'll still have to make breakfast, do the dishes, prep for the school week ahead, fold some laundry and probably referee a fight between them before the day is done.
But I also got homemade gifts and a ton of cuddles 🥰
If that doesn’t sum up mothering, what does 😂
So I’m feeling it all today ❤️
It can all be true. I feel a bit sad and a lot grateful, some disappointment and much joy.
So however you feel, don't make yourself wrong for it today - it's a seven layer dip of emotions for sure.
Complicated, messy and delicious.
Happiest Mother’s Day❤️