Step Out of Your Story

Step Out of Your Story Life is the ultimate character development workout. My counseling practice and writing workshops strengthen emotional muscles for satisfaction and success.

Every life is an unfolding story, a unique, dynamic, sacred story that is open to interpretation, especially your own. As an holistic psychotherapist, workshop facilitator, published author, and “deep soul diver,” I help people find their authentic voice so they can rewrite old self-defeating scripts, and create a life that both honors and expresses their deeper needs, values, and gifts in their personal and professional relationships. PSYCHOTHERAPY: I am a Certified Internal Family Systems (IFS) psychotherapist with the Psychotherapy and Spirituality Institute. Serving all of NY state via tele-health, with limited office visits in NYC and the Hudson Valley, I see adults of all ages managing difficult transitions. As a spiritually-oriented therapist, I consider myself a midwife of sorts, helping people navigate the narrow bridge of difficult life transitions and give birth to more fulfilled version of themselves. In addition to Internal Family Systems, I integrate my knowledge of the enneagram, Jungian archetypes, Focusing, CBT, tapping, psychodynamics, and narrative therapy. I also enjoy helping people get clarity around their identity and personal beliefs as pertains to religion, spirituality, and existential angst. WORKSHOPS: For the past 15 years, I have offered a variety of self discovery writing workshops at such venues as the New York Open Center, the 92nd Street Y, the JCC of Manhattan, Trinity Wall Street, Vassar College, and Sivananda Yoga Ashram in the Bahamas. I have also lectured on the spirituality of crisis and conflict at NYU’s Post-Graduate certificate program in Social Work and Spiritual Care and PSI’s Summer Certificate Program in Spiritually Informed Psychotherapies, and on the Enneagram and Empathy at Alephi University. More recently, I began offering IFS Writing Labs that help people access more self compassion and curiosity towards different parts of themselves. PUBLICATIONS: I am the author of Step Out of Your Story: Writing Exercises to Reframe and Transform Your Life (New World Library, 2016). You can also read my blog "The Novel Perspective" on Psychology Today. ONLINE COURSE: My self-paced online DailyOm course, Reframing Your Narrative About Challenging Relationships, offers perspective-bending writing exercises including IFS-inspired dialogues with triggered parts. For as little as $19, you will receive a weekly lesson with writing exercises and meditations. SPEAKING ENGAGEMENTS: I am available for speaking engagements and corporate workshops. Please email me at Stepoutofyourstory@gmail.com for rates and more information.

It’s an honor to have Step Out of Your Story featured in New World Library’s Happy Friday video! A decade ago, this amaz...
11/07/2025

It’s an honor to have Step Out of Your Story featured in New World Library’s Happy Friday video! A decade ago, this amazing publisher — home to The Power of Now and The Way of the Peaceful Warrior — believed in my vision. The journey since has changed lives, including my own. This Sunday, Nov, 9, from 2-5 p.m. EST, I will be leading an online writing workshop that invites participants to reimagine themselves as the protagonists of their own personal growth adventures with the power to transform their stories through choice and voice. Registration link in the comments. Bring a friend, and save $20 each.

✨ Last Day to Save 15% on Step Out of Your Story Anniversary Workshop ✨If you’ve been thinking about joining my upcoming...
10/31/2025

✨ Last Day to Save 15% on Step Out of Your Story Anniversary Workshop ✨
If you’ve been thinking about joining my upcoming writing workshop, today’s your last chance to save 15% with code STEPOUTEARLY (offer ends tonight!). This workshop offers a creative, supportive space to rediscover your story — and yourself.

“A sanctuary where one can explore who and what they are… Kim has the talent to withdraw herself to allow participants to flourish.” — Jack

“The workshop widened my vistas and increased my hope and confidence in refashioning my narrative.” — Susanne K.

💛 If the price feels like a stretch, please don’t let that stop you — I’m happy to offer a discount if needed. Just message me. Step Out of Your Story: Writing to Reframe and Transform Your Life

Ready to shake up your life? Join us online to learn how writing can help you rewrite your story and transform your reality!

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-novel-perspective/202510/the-secret-power-of-seeing-your-life-as-a-storyMY L...
10/20/2025

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-novel-perspective/202510/the-secret-power-of-seeing-your-life-as-a-story

MY LATEST BLOG ON PSYCHOLOGY TODAY: Imagine walking into a neighborhood bookstore and discovering a novel with a familiar picture on the cover. Flipping through the pages, you are struck by the eerie sense that you’ve read this before. As you begin to recognize characters and scenes, wincing at some and smiling at others, you realize this is the story of your life, and that you are the actually the hero of that story.

How would you feel toward the protagonist of this story, given everything they’ve experienced and overcome? What would you be rooting for in the upcoming chapters that have yet to be written? And if this was a story about personal growth, what qualities – for example, generosity, compassion, equanimity, inner peace - would you want the character of this story (who is you) to possess and develop irrespective of external circumstances like wealth, health, career success or marital status?

Such was the premise of my first book, Step Out of Your Story: Writing Exercises to Reframe and Transform Your Life, which recently celebrated its 10-year anniversary...

Every life has twists, turns, and unexpected plotlines. What if the way you tell your story could change how you live it? Discover how reframing life as a story can help you find strength, meaning, and hope in every chapter.

Early bird discount extended to Nov. 1!
10/16/2025

Early bird discount extended to Nov. 1!

EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT: I'm excited to offer my signature workshop in honor of Step Out of Your Story's 10th Anniversary. S...
09/26/2025

EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT: I'm excited to offer my signature workshop in honor of Step Out of Your Story's 10th Anniversary. Save 15% when you register by October 15 for my 3-hour workshop on Sunday, November 9.

Every life is an unfolding story—yet few of us pause to ask: What is my story really about? Who is writing my script? This interactive class will guide you through perspective-shifting writing exercises to reimagine yourself as the hero of your own work-in-progress. Open to both new and seasoned writers.

Ready to shake up your life? Join us online to learn how writing can help you rewrite your story and transform your reality!

I’m excited to return to offering virtual IFS Writing Labs after a hiatus! This 2-hour workshop—first presented at the 2...
09/26/2025

I’m excited to return to offering virtual IFS Writing Labs after a hiatus! This 2-hour workshop—first presented at the 2022 IFS Conference to excellent reviews—combines Internal Family Systems (IFS) with writing prompts to help you step out of your story, meet your parts with compassion, and discover there are
”no bad parts."

Join us for a deep dive into exploring your inner parts through writing with Internal Family Systems in this interactive online event!

I’m excited to share my latest Psychology Today post on why Internal Family Systems (IFS) and the Enneagram are such a p...
09/03/2025

I’m excited to share my latest Psychology Today post on why Internal Family Systems (IFS) and the Enneagram are such a powerful healing duo. Together, they help us loosen old patterns, heal core wounds, and reconnect with our true selves.
I’m currently welcoming new psychotherapy clients who are curious about integrating these two illuminating modalities into their growth journey.

How two frameworks unlock deeper healing and self-understanding

Thrilled to announce that, after a year of intensive study,  I'm now a Certified Enneagram Professional with Russ Hudson...
07/09/2025

Thrilled to announce that, after a year of intensive study, I'm now a Certified Enneagram Professional with Russ Hudson and Jessica Dibb. The Enneagram is a sacred map of the psyche—revealing the deep patterns that shape how we think, feel, and relate, and guiding us toward the truth of who we are beneath our defenses. I'm looking forward to integrating enneagram wisdom into my IFS psychotherapy practice, and creating workshops and programs that invite healing, wholeness, and self-compassion through the synergy of these two powerful models. Learn more about the enneagram here.. self.

Learn about Enneagram history, how the system works, the 9 dominant personality types, and the RHETI Enneagram personality test.

It was my honor and pleasure to offer "Writing with Internal Family Systems" this past weekend to over a dozen therapist...
05/06/2025

It was my honor and pleasure to offer "Writing with Internal Family Systems" this past weekend to over a dozen therapists with the Hudson Valley Guild for Mental Health Professionals.

It's been awhile, but Im back on the blog....    "Sometimes caring for yourself is the only and best option, especially ...
02/07/2025

It's been awhile, but Im back on the blog....
"Sometimes caring for yourself is the only and best option, especially if you’re very depressed or going through a rough life transition like divorce, grief, unemployment, health issues, or a demanding caregiving situation. Metaphorically speaking, if the house next door is burning, one solid choice is to go outside and join your neighbors in hosing down the fire. But what if the water is off and there is a massive boulder blocking your door?"

Political anxiety is taking up more space on the therapy couch during these times. Despite the pressure to act, sometimes it still makes sense to put on your own oxygen mask first.

LAST CHANCE to purchase my new Intro to IFS course @ 50 % off!  Black Friday sales end tonight at midnight. 10 lessons (...
12/04/2024

LAST CHANCE to purchase my new Intro to IFS course @ 50 % off! Black Friday sales end tonight at midnight. 10 lessons (including writing exercises and mediations) for only $23.50 = A BARGAIN!!!

https://yogaforlifeonline.com/compassion-bootcamp/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR1eVfh0wY4JcuC_m-0GrShcPX_Bicdlh6TLw8C9m1ZG3DcAdgPF1DNTxSQ_aem_uUKdna0ACUw_X6M9WFwKJQ

Embark on a transformative 10-lesson course combining video lessons and guided journaling exercises. Led by Internal Family Systems Therapist Kim Schneiderman.

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