05/14/2023
Motherhood is an action not a label…
While it is a special and particular gift to birth a child (or 3) from one’s body, to have a child by surrogate, to adopt a child, to foster a child…anyone who actively nurtures another soul is effectively a “mother”…
Aunts can mother, sisters can mother, friends can mother…even strangers can mother….
Because Motherhood is always an Action…
To nurture another soul with the selfless mindset to help them reach THEIR full potential in this life
To plant the seeds that grow a solid human capable of spreading those seeds when given the time comes to help grow another solid human
To love them without condition so they can be free to experience the joys of life trusting that they are innately worthy of its goodness not in exchange for performance or perfection
To listen to them, even when they are not speaking, so they feel heard and and learn to be attuned to others who may be silently suffering
To show them trust so they learn to trust themselves, take risks, and find confidence in their capabilities without you
To practice honesty every day so that they will always start from a place of truth, humility, forgiveness and compassion for themselves and others.
To show them that resolving conflict can be a shared goal; achieved calmly and respectfully with those you love, those you collaborate with, and with strangers.
To fortify them with life skills physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually so that they can rise to any occasion and weather any storm with confidence…so they exhibit their strength through vulnerability as well as grit…
To regularly share life experiences with them so that they value quality time and connection and remain curious and involved.
When in doubt…..lead with your heart, your humility, your honesty, your humanity and your humor….
Also you have to make them food give them money or drive them anywhere any time of the day at a moments notice for at least 23 years….the struggle is real…and I wouldn’t exchange it for anything.