01/31/2026
Some of you aren’t drifting from God.
You’re being pushed away by what Christianity has become.
For a lot of people right now, the loneliest place isn’t home. Or the office.
It’s church.
Somewhere along the way, “community” started meaning agreement.
Belonging started meaning "fall in line."
And following red-letter Jesus started feeling like being the awkward one at the table — the problem child, the fly in the ointment, the "backslider."
I feel that tension too.
Trying to follow Jesus in a version of Christianity tangled up with power, politics, and money can make you feel like you’re walking upstream—alone—while everyone else is floating comfortably downstream together.
And here’s the heartbreak:
People who were taught about Jesus their entire lives are now being quietly pushed out — not because they rejected Him, but because they refused to confuse Him with a movement, a party, or a personality.
When we say:
Welcome the stranger.
Feed the hungry.
Love your neighbor.
We’re not being liberal.
We’re not being radical.
We’re not being anything except faithful to Jesus.
Jesus consistently moved toward the people religion kept at arm’s length.
He stood with the religious outcasts—
because love demanded it.
And if choosing that path costs you relationships…
If it costs you your community…
If it even costs you a church home…
Hear this clearly:
You’re not walking away from God.
You might actually be walking with Him.
Moses vs. Pharaoh
Elijah vs. Ahab
Isaiah vs. corrupt kings
Jeremiah vs. empire
John the Baptist vs. Herod
Jesus vs. Rome and the religious elite
That pattern is unmistakable.
If you read the Bible honestly, faithfulness almost always puts people at odds with power and oppressors.
Prophets didn’t partner with empires, they warned them.
Sometimes faithfulness looks like a lonely narrow road, quiet footsteps, and a lot of questions.
But I’d rather walk with Jesus—
even if it’s lonely—
than stand shoulder to shoulder with a religious crowd heading somewhere He never asked us to go.