03/23/2017
We're Moving!
My husband and I have been married for 22 years and have lived in our current home for 21 of those years. That is longer than I have ever lived in any one location. In less than one month, we will be moving to our new home – hopefully the last one before Heaven (or until we retire to Florida)! While I am a professional organizer and pride myself on being somewhat of a minimalist, I am finding that even I have WAY TOO MUCH STUFF! Just packing up my dining room, I have filled up seven boxes!
I already know that many of our furniture pieces and knick knacks will not fit into our new home, so I am selling or giving away as much as I can before the move. While I find it easy to let go of some things, other items are not so easily discarded.
The process that I am implementing is to go room by room and pack up everything that is non-essential to our everyday life for the next month. At this point, it's mostly my china, serving pieces, framed photos, and knick-knacks. As I come across items that I haven't used in the past year or things that no longer hold any sentimental value, I'm placing them on top of my dining room table to be sold or donated. The good news is - my table is filling up fast!
One item that I have held onto for several years which I am letting go of is a wall-hung clock that my dad gave me one year for Christmas. The clock has a swinging pendulum and it chimes every hour, or it does when you wind it. I haven't wound it in at least ten years! The chimes kept me awake at night. The only reason I have held onto it is because my dad gave it to me, and he passed away 15 years ago. It's hard to let go of gifts from our loved ones who have died. But I can assuage the guilt by acknowledging all the other material possessions that I have that either belonged to my dad or that my dad gave me, and by also acknowledging my memories of my dad are not completely tied up in material things.
The best way to honor the memory of a loved one through inherited possessions is to actually use those possessions. My dad left me a desk, a side table, and an antique secretary that I use every day. These items are integral parts of our home, unlike the wall clock. So, I'm not letting the guilt of parting with a gift keep me tied to something I don't really cherish. And that's my best piece of advice to anyone who has a hard time letting go because of guilt. Only own items that are integral to your life or which you truly cherish.
Dining room down – only 10 more rooms and 26 days to go!
Evette Ownby
Simply Peaceful Solutions
3/23/2017