11/13/2025
“When the Heart Reopens”
Lately I’ve been feeling a quiet ache watching how we talk about the nervous system online.
Somatic healing is powerful. Learning to regulate, to breathe, to notice our body’s signals — these are vital steps toward safety.
But healing doesn’t end there.
The body holds trauma, yes — and so does the psyche. Our nervous system often adapts to feelings we never got to feel, to stories that went unwitnessed. When the pain was too great, and we didn’t have a loving attachment figure to help us feel, regulate and contain the overwhelming emotions, the heart closed, and the body learned to carry what consciousness could not.
True healing happens when these two parts — body and psyche — begin to meet again. When the sensations of the body and the meaning of the story finally find each other.
This can only happen in safety — not just a clinical kind of safety, but a relational and soulful one. The kind that comes from being with someone trustworthy, steady, and attuned. The kind that allows the heart to risk softening again.
Because the heart is both the container and the destination of healing. It’s where the unremembered feelings can finally be felt, held, and integrated.
Facing what once felt unbearable isn’t about re-living pain; it’s about reclaiming wholeness. The heart that once closed to survive learns it can stay open and stay safe.
That is the quiet work of real healing — where body, mind, and soul remember each other again.
🤍Annie