09/15/2025
BERNICE SMITH THOMAS
The angels came for a woman of tremendous faith, Bernice Smith Thomas, lovingly known as Ms. Thomas , The Queen, "B" and GMB, on Tuesday September 9, 2025, in Mechanicsville, Virginia. Her only child was faithfully by her side.
Born and raised in Gloucester, Virginia, Ms. Thomas was the daughter of the late Susie and Jackson Smith. She was the wife of the late Deacon George H. Thomas and the beloved sister to six siblings who preceded her in death.
Education was both her calling and her ministry. She earned her bachelor’s degree from Virginia State University—affectionately calling it “Big State”—and a master’s degree from Hampton Institute (now Hampton University). She continued postgraduate work at William & Mary and received numerous certificates in teaching and guidance.
Ms. Thomas was a member of the National Association of College Women. She was also appointed to the Gloucester School Board in 1992 for a four year term. She also served on the Advisory Committee for Peasley Middle School and the Superintendent's Division Wide Task Force.
For more than 30 years, Ms. Thomas served as a teacher, guidance counselor, and ultimately the Director of the Guidance Department at Gloucester High School. To the students of both T.C. Walker and Gloucester High, she was far more than an educator—she was their confidant, protector, and mentor. She shaped countless lives with wisdom, patience, and love.
Ms. Thomas was cherished by her daughter, Faye Thomas Lemon, her son-in-law, Karl Lemon, and her two grandchildren Kelli and Lance Lemon (Brittany), her great grandchildren Grey and Sivi Lemon, who adored her deeply. To them, she was the heart of the family, embodying grace, strength, and style—always remembered for her kindness, peace, coolness under pressure, her style and her signature high-heeled shoes.
She was also deeply loved by her sister Gladys Griffin, two nieces Marlene Murdock (John) and Pamela Armstead and one nephew, Harold Smith and several great and great -great nieces and nephews, cousins and friends.
A woman of steadfast faith, Ms. Thomas was a devoted trustee and faithful member of Saint Paul Baptist Church in Gloucester, Virginia. Her life was a living testimony of devotion to God, family, and community.
Ms. Thomas will be honored at her funeral service on Saturday, September 20, 2025, at 3:00 p.m. at First United Baptist Church, 6188 George Washington Memorial Highway, Gloucester, Virginia. Her pastor, Rev. Bradley Holmes, will deliver the eulogy. The family will greet friends beginning at 2:00 p.m. at the church. Burial will follow on Monday, September 22, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at Rosewell Memorial Garden Cemetery, 3609 Providence Road, Hayes, Virginia.
Carter Funeral Home is in charge of the arrangements. In lieu of fresh-cut flowers, the family requests that monetary donations be made to Saint Paul Baptist Church, 5575 Page Road, Gloucester, Virginia or send potted plants to the family. She had an atrium full of plants at her house at Cappahosic.
Ms. Thomas leaves behind a legacy of love, excellence, and unwavering faith that will continue to guide all who were blessed to know her.
The family wishes to thank the many for their attention to Ms. Thomas especially the loving care provided by Mary Turner, Denise Mason, Josephine Banks, Harmony Care and Bayda Hospice at VCU.