12/08/2025
The holidays can bring joy AND pressure, memories, grief, and stress. If you’re finding yourself needing help this season, here are some gentle ways to ask for support:
✨ Lead with clarity
Try: “I’m feeling overwhelmed today. Could you help me think through the plan?”
✨ Name the support you’re requesting
Instead of: “I don’t know… everything feels like too much.”
Try: “It would help if we could take a short break from talking about food.”
✨ Use boundaries as protection, not punishment
Try: “I love you, and I need to change the subject right now.”
✨ Choose your safe people first
If asking feels scary, practice with someone who already gets you.
✨ Re-ask if needed
Sometimes others need a reminder and that doesn’t mean your needs are too much.
You deserve support. You deserve to feel safe. You deserve to enjoy your holidays in ways that feel right for YOU. 💛
If you or someone you love needs additional support navigating this season, our team is here.
📩 Reach out through our website. You don’t have to go through this alone.