03/04/2026
Create Trust, Build Relationships
Connection first. Always.
When I meet a child, my goal is not to push tasks. It is to build trust. That means child-led play, following their interests, using the toys and fidgets and trampoline, swings, etc. that they naturally gravitate toward, and honoring movement like crashing, swinging, jumping, or snuggling into a crash pad. Nothing happens at a table unless they choose it. There is no right way to play.
I do not rush in to fix things. I give space for problem solving and independence, their way. As Barry Prizant says, “autism is a disability of trust”. When we understand that many behaviors are rooted in anxiety, our role becomes creating safety.
Play is intrinsically motivated. It is joy. It is the journey. I want children to want to come back. When they feel regulated and in control, I can build a relationship and offer language in ways that truly connect.