06/24/2023
As a genealogist/historian, there are highs and lows like anything else. I’ve been very low as it regards to genealogy for 2 years or so. The reason being family standing in the way of research. Family not sharing photos, information etc. To do all this work and it’s a lot of work. Hours, days, weeks, months or extensive research. Reaching out to family you’ve never known and searching for history. Because we have to write our own. Long nights of sifting through records, some that are so gruesome and cruel that it’ll just drain all peace out of you (if you let it). This is work and to be the person holding missing pieces (pictures, family records etc), it’s gotta be heavy. Stop making this journey harder for me and those like me. We’ve lost enough history and identity. If I ask to see pictures or know family history and connections, SHARE THEM. If you have old pictures, even of those you can’t identify, SHARE THEM. The biggest part of genealogy is finding a part of yourself, finding a photo of a relative you look like and stories about them that help you see where you get it from. Just SHARE THEM, most younger people have a cellphone and only intend to take pictures on their phone. Not even leaving with it. Stop holding back. Stop standing in the way of progress. SHARE WHAT YOU HAVE before it’s too late. We still have people who can identify the faces in these pictures.
Now, rant over. Here’s a high from genealogy.
Yesterday, a cousin told me her and another cousin were talking about how much I resemble an uncle they have a picture of. The flare ignited and she talked so much about the picture that I insisted I see it lol now. 😂😂😂 and yeah, the resemblance is there. This is my 4th great uncle, James Bates, brother of my 3rd great grandfather, Henry Harrison, the father of Leroy Simpkins. To my Simpkins family, this y’all uncle too.
Putting faces with these names helps complete the puzzle. Thanks to those who share and don’t stand in the way. ✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽✊🏼✊🏻