02/04/2026
Trauma is not “just in your head” — it literally changes how the brain functions.
When someone has lived through overwhelming experiences, their nervous system adapts to survive. That means:
🧠 The thinking brain (prefrontal cortex) struggles to stay online
🗣 Words can disappear when trying to explain what happened
🚨 The amygdala stays on high alert, scanning for danger
🧩 Memory can feel confusing, with the past feeling like it’s happening right now
These are not personal failures.
They are survival responses from a body and brain that did their best to protect you.
Healing isn’t about “being stronger.”
It’s about gently teaching the nervous system that the danger is over and safety is possible again.
You are not broken.
Your brain learned to survive. And it can learn safety too. 💛