Zanda Hilger, LPC - Licensed Counselor

Zanda Hilger, LPC - Licensed Counselor Private practice closed. Visit this page for tools, quotes, and materials on stress management, mindfulness, better communication, and self care.

Therapies include Cognitive Behavioral, Brief Solution Focused, and other therapies to fit client goals and needs. Two offices: 1) 8325 Whitley Rd in northeast Tarrant County just east of the intersection of Denton Highway and North Tarrant Parkway 2) 111 NW 24th St, Forth Worth, north of downtown just two blocks south of the Fort Worth stockyards area. Email me through my website: zandas.net or
through Psychology Today by going to this link: http://therapists.psychologytoday.com/rms/prof_detail.php?profid=139475&sid=1364079695.6637_25853&zipcode=76148&zipdist=2&tr=ResultsRow&trow=2&ttot=49

Are you managing your stress as well as you would like? In addition to exercise and good nutrition, the evidence is moun...
04/27/2016

Are you managing your stress as well as you would like? In addition to exercise and good nutrition, the evidence is mounting of the health and stress management benefits of deep breathing, guided imagery, and meditation. An increasingly common term is "mindfulness."

In the National Institute for Health article, Mindfulness Matters - Can Living in the Moment Improve Your Health, Mindfulness means ".......not living your life on 'autopilot.' Instead, you experience life as it unfolds moment to moment, good and bad, and without judgment or preconceived notions."

In addition to nutrition, exercise, and physical therapy, meditation is one of the multi-disciplinary treatment protocols for migraine headaches at The Baylor/Scott and White Health System Neuro-Science Headache Clinic.

Jon Kabat-Zinn, Ph.D., Executive Director at the Center for Mindfulness in Medicine, Health Care and Society at the University of Massachusetts Medical Center, is one of the better known names about mindfulness. He defines mindfulness as "the ability to pay total attention to the present moment with a non-judgmental awareness of the inner and/or outer experiences." Read more about him below.*

Anderson Cooper of the CBS program 60 Minutes, did an online report about mindfulness with Kabat-Zinn and Cooper's experience with mindfulness. Go to this link: http://www.cbsnews.com/news/mindfulness-anderson-cooper-60-minutes/

From an article in the Huffington Post, Mindfulness Meditation and the Brain, "Mindfulness, something once practiced only in more closeted meditation circles, has recently become a greater mainstream interest. Perhaps for this reason, research on mindfulness meditation has increased considerably over the last decade. Even the National Institutes of Health has grown increasingly more interested in mindfulness meditation, funding a number of large studies which investigate the effects of mindfulness on emotional and physical health outcomes."

In my private practice, clients learn deep breathing and various forms of mindfulness exercises during sessions and on their own through resources readily found online.

Below are some resources for your use as you learn better ways to manage stress and improve the quality of your life:

http://stress.about.com/od/tensiontamers/a/exercises.htm - various options including deep breathing, mindfulness meditations, use of music, and other suggestions.
On YouTube: Use search words such as mindfulness, guided imagery, meditation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HmEo6RI4Wvs - 5 minutes Overview by Jon Kabat-Zinn
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F6eFFCi12v8 - 5 minutes One Moment Meditation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qzR62JJCMBQ - 9 minutes TED talk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jyy0ra2WcQQ - 18 minutes guided relaxation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HT_ZvD94_kE - 14 minutes guided relaxation
Blog postings from Amy Edelstein, Mindfulness for Wellness, http://amyedelstein.com/category/blog/
Also, try entering various words into your internet browser and see what you find, such as mindfulness, stress management, guided imagery, meditation, and guided meditation. Caution: As with anything on the internet, use care when downloading links and read to find what others may be saying about the people and sites you visit.

For more suggestions or to schedule a counseling session, email me at zandalpc@gmail.com.

Wishing you good health and well-being.

Zanda Hilger, LPC

http://zandas.net/

Anderson Cooper reports on what it's like to try to achieve "mindfulness," a self-awareness scientists say is very healthy, but rarely achieved in today's world of digital distractions

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06/27/2014

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05/04/2014

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05/04/2014

“Nothing happens until something moves.” That is a famous quote from Albert Einstein. What needs to move first? Thoughts. Nothing changes until we change the way we think about a thing. Wayne Dyer says, “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” Thoughts are things and have the power to change our lives. - JC Lowes

03/02/2014

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11/25/2013

“Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habit. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny

― Lao Tzu

10/23/2013

Hitting the Reset Button: Back to Basics

On an airplane, remember the announcement, “Put your own mask on first.”

What are you doing to make your needs a priority?

“How’s that working for you?”
“What would you tell someone else who was living your life right now?”

Is it time to step back and see what is working and what we are doing that needs adjusting? By going “back to basics” look at habits that may or may not be the best choices right now.

Ask yourself a few questions:

What are you doing about healthy practices: nutrition, exercise, especially.

What are our sources of stress?

What coping practices are working? what needs adjusting?

• Honestly evaluate your situation
• Recognize what habits are working for you
• Recognize what habits are not working for you
• Identify healthy coping techniques
• Make a commitment to your own health

Cautions:

How often are you going back to old habits that aren’t working and what are you doing about it?

Your best resources:
• You
• Willingness
• Commitment to taking care of yourself
• A new relationship to “time” - managing it not letting it control you.

You know your are coping well when
• You feel healthier
• You feel mentally and emotionally stronger
• You are more confident
• People notice that you are doing things differently

Self Assessment

1. Honestly evaluate your situation

o How healthy are YOU? When was the last time you have a complete medical examination?
o How healthy is your diet?
o What are your sources of stress?
o How are you dealing with stress?
o What are you doing for exercise?
o How are you sleeping?
o What about the “d” word and its cousin ?
o What outside interests do you have?
o Are your spiritual needs being met?
o How often are you asking for help?
o Are you accepting help?
o What is keeping you from what you need and want?

2. Recognize what habits are working for you

What’s working well? What are you doing that you are proud of? What are you doing that others notice and comment about?

3. Recognize what habits are not working for you

What is happening that make you feel discouraged, resentful, helpless? What are you doing that others notice and comment about?

4. Identify healthy coping techniques
1. Breathe and stretch.
2. Manage stress before the situation becomes a crisis.
3. Reframe how you see things
4. Recognize your history and what triggers your stress response :“If you always do what you have always done you will always get what you always got”
5. What can you let go of? Reset priorities.
6. Acknowledge that you are stressed and need help
7. Set limits and boundaries.
8. Live in the moment. How much control do you really have? How much time and energy are you losing? What can you influence?
9. What role does forgiveness play in your life and this situation?
10. Have some fun
11. Respond - don't react
5. Make a commitment to your own physical, mental, and spiritual health:

How would you respond to this:

To take better care of myself I will start with these three things and keep adding healthy habits

1. ______________________________________

2. ______________________________________

3. ______________________________________

A good reminder: The Serenity Slogan of “Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things that I can, and wisdom to know the difference “

And if you are ready to work this plan or take it to the next level, call me at (817) 756-6460

10/16/2013

"If you always do what you always did, you'll always get what you always got"* Are you thinking it will be different this time? Maybe it's time to try another way.

*both Henry Ford and Tony Robbins have been credited with this quote

09/28/2013

“We have all a better guide in ourselves, if we would attend to it, than any other person can be."

- Jane Austen, Mansfield Park

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