11/15/2025
Health has become one of the most misunderstood conversations of our time—not because people don’t care, but because we’ve tried to compress something deeply personal into a handful of generic rules. Everywhere you look, there’s a new “must-follow” diet, a trending workout, or a guru telling you that their system is the only system. And people cling to these ideas because we all want clarity, structure, and a map to feeling better. But the truth, the part no influencer wants to admit, is that health has never been one-size-fits-all. What fuels one body might slow another down entirely.
We’ve created an entire culture around trying to look unique while behaving the same. Social media pushes the illusion of individuality—unique aesthetics, bold claims, curated lifestyles—yet the advice that circulates is shockingly copy-and-paste. Keto for everyone. CrossFit for everyone. “Clean eating” for everyone. No room for nuance, no room for differences in genetics, stress, daily demands, or lived experience. And instead of helping, these trends often push people into shame when their bodies don’t respond the way the internet promises they should.
The uncomfortable, slightly controversial truth is this: the people who dare to step outside the accepted template often get labeled as “doing it wrong,” when really, they’re just finally doing it their way. They’re listening to what their own body is asking for—something quieter, slower, different—and that makes others uncomfortable because it challenges the idea that one universal path exists. Being the outlier takes courage, especially in a culture that secretly loves conformity disguised as freedom.
If anything, health should be the most personalized journey there is. It’s emotional, physical, genetic, environmental, and often unpredictable. What works is what works—for you. And embracing that truth isn’t rebellious or controversial; it’s honest. In a world that pretends uniqueness while enforcing sameness, choosing to honor your individual needs—your pace, your sensitivities, your strengths, your limitations—is the most authentic act of self-care you can offer yourself.