12/04/2025
Marvin Eugene Spears
Marvin Eugene Spears, affectionately known as Marv, was born on October 4, 1940, in Childers, Oklahoma. He passed away on November 28, 2025, in Tulsa, Oklahoma, surrounded by his loving family. Marv lived a life rich in purpose and devoted to both his career and loved ones.
Marv's academic journey began at Nowata High School, where he excelled not only in academics but also in various extracurricular activities. A sports enthusiast, he participated in basketball and baseball, and he was an accomplished member of the band, earning recognition as part of the All-State Band and serving as a Boy's State Representative. His dedication to music earned him a two-year band scholarship to Coffeyville Junior College. He then attended the University of Oklahoma, where he continued to shine both academically and socially as a member of the Alpha Tau Omega fraternity and Iota Epsilon honorary fraternity and achieving a place on the Dean's Honor Roll. Marv graduated from the University of Oklahoma with a Bachelor’s in Business Administration. In addition, he graduated from the University of Oklahoma School of Law where he earned his Juris Doctorate, paving the way for a noteworthy legal career.
Throughout his professional life, Marv worked as an attorney in various capacities, including roles at the Oklahoma Office of the Attorney General, as a District Attorney, and ultimately in private practice. His commitment to justice and his community underscored his dedication to his work as a legal professional.
Marv was known for his warm personality that endeared him to many. He was a true people person who enjoyed life in all its forms. Never one to meet a stranger, he genuinely cared about others, always taking an interest in their well-being. His infectious smile had the power to brighten any day, and he was known for placing others' needs above his own. Marv's witty sense of humor and calming presence provided comfort to those around him, reassuring everyone that everything would be alright.
Outside of his professional endeavors, Marv had a deep passion for the great outdoors. He cherished moments spent deer and quail hunting, as well as fishing, activities that brought him joy and connection to nature.
Marv's proudest accomplishments were his family: his beloved wife, Pat; his children, Brad and Stacy; and his cherished grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Their lives were enriched by his unwavering support and love.
Marvin Eugene Spears will be remembered for his generous spirit, his dedication to his family and profession, and the lasting impact he made on everyone, fortunate enough to know him.
Marvin is survived by his wife, Pat, of the home; children, Brad Spears and wife, Lisa, of Tulsa, Stacy Spears of Tulsa; grandchildren, Courtney Selvidge and husband, Camden, of Edmond, Ashley Spears of Manhattan, New York, and Elizabeth Ahmed of Tulsa; and great-grandchildren, Archer and Madden Selvidge.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Jake and Dessie Spears, and his sister, Della Mae Maddox.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, December 6th, 2025, in the chapel of Benjamin Funeral Service with Pastor Andrew Haire, Sr. officiating. Interment will follow at Nowata Memorial Park Cemetery. Brad Spears, Courtney Selvidge, John Spears, Charlie Eitel, Larry Wilcox, and Camden Selvidge, will serve as casket bearers.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Ball Cemetery, P.O. Box 851, Nowata, Oklahoma 74048. Online condolences may be made at www.honoringmemoriesnowata.com or on the funeral home page.
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