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"When I ask my patients to be realistic instead of sentimental, when I insist that they leave behind their romantic sense of exceptionality in favor of a tendency towards averageness, I refer to the attitude they are supposed to take with regard to their symptoms. There they must not indulge in sentimental exceptionality; there they must plant themselves solidly on the ground of realistic averageness. If the average person experiences a headache, they do not rush into a hysterical panic. They suffer but remain calm. True, my patients suffer from conditions that are not average in intensity and duration. Nevertheless, I ask them to retain their balance."
Mental Health Through Will-Training,
Chapter 6 (5th edition), pg. 42