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05/01/2022

This is SO important to understand.

Let them participate!

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YOU CAN JOIN US, BUT ONLY IF YOU'RE GOOD???

Dear Educators,

When you have “end of year”, “end of semester” or “end of testing” parties, and base participation in those events on “good behavior”, you’re making some children feel TERRIBLE and alienating them in the process.

Your students want to do well. ALL KIDS WANT TO DO WELL! The students who were “bad” were having a hard time meeting your expectations. They were trying their best. You may not BELIEVE it, but they were. It doesn’t do a teacher, a school administrator or anyone ANY good to think a child is being bad for the sake of being bad, or to seek negative attention, or any other judgement we may have. They need your help. They need to feel safe with you and they need to know you will help them, and you’re threatening that relationship and their feeling of safety by excluding them. It may be an unintended consequence, but it’s true.

When you don’t let kids participate:
You’re telling them they don’t belong.
You’re telling them you can’t be with your friends, that you’re not one of us.
You’re telling them you only love the kids with “good behavior”, and they are NOT one of those kids.

Since the overwhelming majority of behavior in young children is stress behavior and not volitional, you are telling children that, even though their behavior was because of stress, a learning difficulty, emotional regulation challenges , sensory overwhelm, or a thousand other “invisible” reasons that you may not know about, they can’t make it right. You’re wielding your power and making them feel helpless, embarrassed and sad.

And if you think that will improve behavior, you’re wrong. Neuroscience says you’re wrong.

Please stop making kids who are struggling sad. They need your help, not your punishment.

Am I saying that the child who didn’t have “good behavior” should be allowed to participate in all the events, and field trips, and recess, without ANY punishment?

That’s exactly what I’m saying!

Let them participate and help them when they’re having a hard time.

They need our compassion.
They need to feel included.
They NEED to participate.

If you need support finding alternatives, this page is filled with them! We’re here to help!
Greg Santucci, Occupational Therapist
Founding Director, Power Play Pediatric Therapy
www.gregsantucci.com

My latest post over at Greg Santucci, Occupational TherapistThere are a lot of wonderful teachers out there doing amazin...
01/15/2022

My latest post over at Greg Santucci, Occupational Therapist

There are a lot of wonderful teachers out there doing amazing things that parents, administrators, and legislators may not know about....but the kids know!

My Winking Partner

I recently got to spend some quality one-on-one time with my son. We were looking through old pictures and came across some memories from elementary school. He looked at one school picture and said, “I remember that year! I had my winking partner that year!”

Your winking partner, I asked?

“Yeah, my winking partner. I had a secret game with an assistant teacher in my class. Any time I got an answer right, she winked at me. That’s how it started. It was like our secret signal. Then, we did it more. If I did something good, I got a wink. If I was sad about something, I got a wink and it made me feel better (he softly giggled when saying that). Sometimes we would just get silly and wink at each other like crazy (he demonstrated). She was so nice. I loved her.”

It's now years later and he still remembered. While he was telling me the story, I could see that was visualizing being back in that classroom, and he was smiling.

These are the little things that are A REALLY BIG DEAL for kids!

With all of the pressure teachers are under, especially right now, there’s something that the test scores and the data sheets don’t measure: They don’t measure the teacher's relationship with their students. An 'effective' teacher is so much more than good test scores.

“That was a really good year, dad”, he said.

A teacher's relationship with their students is the foundation for a safe learning environment. To any teacher reading this: The administrators and legislators may not know about the connection you have with your students, but the KIDS know…and they remember…and they love you for it! ❤️😉

Please share this and in the comment section, share your stories!

Greg Santucci, MS, OTR
Occupational Therapist
Founding Director
Power Play Pediatric Therapy
www.gregsantucci.com

Newest post over at Greg Santucci, Occupational Therapist. Please share so we can advocate for our kids!
01/10/2022

Newest post over at Greg Santucci, Occupational Therapist. Please share so we can advocate for our kids!

Dear Teachers and Principals: Please Stop Taking Away Recess.

Despite all of the known benefits of recess, taking away recess as a punishment continues to be a very popular discipline tactic used by teachers and principals.

The Robert Wood Johnson Foundation, the National Association of Elementary School Principals and Playworks surveyed almost 2,000 principals nationwide. Key findings from the survey included:

• 4 out of 5 principals report that recess has a positive impact on academic achievement.
• Two-thirds of principals report that students listen better after recess and are more focused in class.
• Virtually all believe that recess has a positive impact on children’s social development (96 percent) and general well-being (97 percent).
https://www.rwjf.org/en/library/articles-and-news/2010/02/first-of-its-kind-gallup-poll-links-recess-to-academic-achieveme.html

Ironically, in another study by the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation, 77% of principals reported recess away as a punishment. The hypocrisy is extraordinary.
https://www.theatlantic.com/education/archive/2013/10/nixing-recess-the-silly-alarmingly-popular-way-to-punish-kids/280631/

A study that appeared in School Psychology Quarterly underscored the importance of recess for kids. “Results showed that levels of inappropriate behavior were consistently higher on days when participants did not have recess, compared with days when they did have recess. Results also showed that the level of inappropriate behavior for all participants progressively increased over time on days when they did not have recess. However, this progressive increase did not occur on days when the participants had recess.”
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/238310293_Effects_of_Recess_on_the_Classroom_Behavior_of_Children_With_and_Without_Attention-Deficit_Hyperactivity_Disorder

According to the CDC, recess benefits students by:

• Increasing their level of physical activity.
• Improving their memory, attention, and concentration.
• Helping them stay on-task in the classroom.
• Reducing disruptive behavior in the classroom.
• Improving their social and emotional development (e.g.,
learning how to share and negotiate).
https://www.cdc.gov/healthyschools/physicalactivity/recess.htm

The importance of recess has become so evident, that some states have even passed legislation requiring recess. In New Jersey, for example, elementary school students are required to have 20 minutes of daily recess, and recess cannot be taken away for academic or punitive reasons.
https://www.nj.gov/education/broadcasts/2018/SEP/10/18903/Updated%20Guidance%20-%20Implementation%20of%20Daily%20Recess%20for%20Kindergarten%20through%20Grade%205.pdf

There is no evidence demonstrating that taking away recess improves behavior. While many teachers and principals ‘have their reasons’, taking away recess has been proven to be both developmentally uninformed and counterproductive. Let’s look at some of the reasons why recess is still used as a discipline measure, despite the research.

1) Kids like recess, so this will ‘teach them a lesson’.

That sentiment is actually very mean-spirited. In other words, the child made a mistake that made me, the adult, angry or disrupted the class, so I must do something mean to them in return. It’s retaliatory, and the lesson it teaches is not necessarily the lesson that was intended to be taught. If you want to make a child angry, or upset, or dislike their teacher- take away recess. If you want to embarrass a child in front of their peers, prevent them from getting regulated so they can meet expectations in class and prevent them from socializing with their friends- take away recess. If you're trying to get them to remember their homework, stop calling out in class, or remember to get a paper signed, taking away recess will NOT improve that behavior durably. Developing strategies to help them remember their homework or not call out in class will help solve THAT problem. The Collaborative and Proactive Solutions Model highlighted in the book Lost At School and detailed at www.livesinthebalance.org is just one evidence-based solution to help solve those problems.

2) “It is essentially a brief time-out. It allows the student to reflect on their behavior and quickly get back on track.”

This was actually said by a behavior support consultant implementing the Michigan DOE’s PBIS program. This is developmentally uninformed. With all we know about how the brain works and how the lower, more primitive, “non-thinking” part of the brain is where most childhood behaviors stem from, to think that a child is “reflecting on their behavior” is nonsensical. More information on how the brain works, and the upstairs/downstairs brain can be found in the book The Whole Brain Child, by Drs. Dan Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson. An infographic explaining the “upstairs and downstairs brain" can be found here: https://www.facebook.com/gregsantucciOT/photos/a.110748724041048/342565447526040/

3) Taking away recess is “a process where the student may ‘owe’ time from recess” because of negative behavior during class time. This was also said by an administrator in Michigan implementing the state’s PBIS program. This goes right back to the first sentiment that kids ‘like’ recess. Once again, it’s the retaliatory mindset that ‘you did something I didn’t like, so I have to do something mean to you in return’. Kids don’t “owe a teacher time”. A teacher or administrator is de-valuing recess if they think its OK to take away such an important aspect of a child’s school experience because they feel the kid “owes them” time.

As a parent, if losing recess is a threat your child has been exposed to, insist that your child does not ever have recess taken away.

Not a day of recess
Not half of recess
Not even 5 minutes of recess.

Recess is off limits.

Our children deserve best practice, and there’s no evidence proving taking away recess is an effective discipline measure. Teachers and administrators can disagree, but they can’t back it up with facts. The facts, and an evidence-based alternative, have been presented.

If a child has concerning behavior in school, address the problem that is causing the concerning behavior. Taking away recess solves no problems, however it creates many unintended consequences. Those consequences include: withholding a self-regulation tool; withholding an opportunity to learn and practice social skills; withholding physical activity that will help them meet the expectations of the classroom; withholding a needed break from the rigors of school; and making a kid lose trust in the person who wielded their power unfairly in order to “teach them a lesson”.

Recess is just too important to take away.

Please share this article. Our kids need school to understand just how important recess is.

Greg Santucci, MS, OTR
Occupational Therapist
Founding Director
Power Play Pediatric Therapy

Experience the Power of Play this holiday season with some cool toy ideas and parenting tips to help support your sensat...
11/16/2021

Experience the Power of Play this holiday season with some cool toy ideas and parenting tips to help support your sensational kids!

I am so grateful to my friends at Parenting Special Needs Magazine for the opportunity to be on the cover and write an article for their Nov/Dec. 2021 issue. This is a free magazine that you can access here: https://www.parentingspecialneeds.org/

Not only do I talk about some of my favorite toys that I will highlight soon in an upcoming FB LIVE session, but I also write about 5 questions I get asked A LOT as an Occupational Therapist.

I hope you check it out and of course, SHARE so that other families can access this resource! Thank you!

I am so proud to be a part of this series! Please share!
11/06/2021

I am so proud to be a part of this series! Please share!

10/23/2021

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