12/11/2025
You’re warmly invited to Consent Matters: How to Have Hot S3x without Harming Anyone - Dec 13th at 10AM PST on Zoom (available worldwide).
This gentle yet powerful workshop is available to my paid subscribers at www.patreon.com/SarasaTa**ra and is designed to help people of all genders, orientations, and identities feel safer, more confident, and more empowered in their intimate lives.
We’ll explore the foundations of enthusiastic consent—the freely given “yes” that makes s3x of any kind feel good for everyone involved. Together, we’ll explore:
1. What healthy boundaries look like
2. How to have a safer s3x conversations that set you up for success
3. How to communicate desires and limits in ways that feel authentic
4. How to honor both your pleasure and your safety
5. Tips to keep yourself safe using Dating Apps
TW: Please be aware we’ll be touching on topics such as s3xual assault and r@pe and you are welcome to take breaks or step away as needed. I'll also be building grounding practices into the workshop to support you.
This workshop also includes a straightforward, accessible explanation of how the law defines these acts, including what it means when someone has not consented to specific kinds of s3xual pe*******on even if they have consented to other kinds of touch.
We’ll look at:
1. Real-world dating and intimate scenarios where misunderstandings or assumptions can arise
2. How to recognize when a situation is no longer safe
3. How to know if you have been s3xually assaulted
4. Resources to support yourself if you feel violated
This workshop is especially important for people living in bodies that hold more social power—such as people with pen*ses—because understanding the legal and ethical definitions of consent helps ensure you never cross a line, harm someone unintentionally, or find yourself in situations where the other person feels violated. The goal is not to shame anyone, but to support people in becoming safer, more attuned partners who know how to check in, slow down, and navigate intimacy with clarity and respect.
Consent Matters offers tools for preventing harm before it happens. We’ll cover how to check in with a partner in ways that feel natural, how to slow things down without losing connection, and how to create an atmosphere where everyone feels comfortable speaking up. Whether you’re LGBTQ, straight, single, or partnered, this workshop honors the truth that anyone—of any gender—can experience harm and deserves safety and care.
You're invited to learn, connect, ask questions, and help build a culture where consent is not just a requirement, but a shared practice that makes intimacy richer, safer, kinder, and more beautiful for us all.