12/14/2021
Zen of Tom by Dave Hingsburger
"It isn’t easy to ask for help for a reason, you are placing yourself,
and your needs, and your weaknesses into the hands of
another. The superpower that I don’t have is being able to look
into the heart of another; if I did have this ability, I would be able
to trust without also having to have faith in another. Again, no
words were spoken, but Tom’s ability to make me feel
comfortable and safe were remarkable. I think of the people we serve. Do they feel comfortable with our support? Do they feel
safe in our presence? How do we communicate our heart through the use of our hands? Our voices? Our approach to their needs? Are we so used to providing support that we no longer know what it means? Have we become numb to the dynamic of power that is
implicit in our being the ‘helper,’ and they being the ‘helpee?’ Perhaps, since you are reading this, you can also take the time to figure out how you make people feel welcome and comfortable while you meet their needs? Maybe you can ask yourself if, in your
interactions, people feel safe with you."
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