02/19/2026
One Activity That Can Motivate Your Kid:
One Hard Thing Per Day
Video games, social media, climate-controlled homes, cozy clothes, food on demand, the list goes on and on. Life is significantly easier for our children (and us adults) than 50-100 years ago. This has resulted in skyrocketing mental health issues, obesity, drug abuse and poor academics. Without daily challenge, without a sense of accomplishment, we all fall into a state of contentment which eventually leads to depression and no motivation. Dopamine filled activities such as video games, drugs, and social media fill that empty void and give us a short-term boost to a long-term problem. This negative spiral effect compounds over time. As our children go through their major developmental years, if they do not experience challenging activities, learn to overcome, and occasionally feel a sense of big accomplishment (and failure), they will continually choose the path of least resistance which we all know never leads to achieving your true potential.
Enter.... the “One Hard Thing Per Day” mindset.
In our house, we ask our 12-year-old, what’s the one hard thing you did today? Sometimes we get wisea*s responses, other times we get an answer or an idea that makes you smile. Over time, this almost becomes second nature. We earn our comfort. Splitting wood, hike, run, make a cold call back to a customer, workout in the gym, start a fire in the backyard in 12-degree weather, make a fort, 1 hour of extra homework, or a 30 second cold shower. There are endless options. All of these things are hard, and all of these things build 1% more resilience each time you complete them.
Implement the One Hard Thing Per Day mindset in your household and watch the results for yourself. The one caveat is at least one parent must do it with the child. Please do not be the parent recommending a hard activity while you are sitting back with your feet up on the recliner. Be the example.