11/04/2025
Emotional abuse is VERY insidious.
If people cannot take accountability that is a HUGE red flag.
And it’s zillions of red flags when you take responsibility for your part in some thing, and instead of someone also taking their responsibility for their part, they instead use your integrity against you and continue to avoid taking responsibility for their own behaviors.
Constant blame and projection is victimhood consciousness. It keeps you trapped. I can’t empower myself if I’m always like, but he’s making me feel like XYZ… if you find yourself in a heap of excuses, that is literally avoidant behavior, but you’re actually avoiding your own self. Yes it goes that deep you avoid others and then you avoid yourself and then you blame others because you feel so alone.
If you don’t have honest, open communication in a relationship, then it’s not a healthy relationship.
Avoidance helps no one even if there is a false temporary relief from the avoidance. In fact from my perspective, it hurts the avoidant person the most. Because it just causes that person to be more and more alone and confused within their own psyche that is likely spinning a story that’s not even true.
Honest healthy communication is vital to a happy life that includes healthy relationships.
If someone can’t meet your in honesty and communication, especially if you allow them to be in close proximity to you in your life, I encourage you to have more respect for yourself and make some space and find people who value honesty and compassionate communication and most importantly self responsibility & accountability.
You are worth it ✝️🙏🌹🩵✨✨
We all are 😇
