04/26/2026
Beautiful explanation of the power of presence
“It wasn’t behaviour…
it was what she was holding.”
I see this in horses…
and I see this in people.
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A lovely client originally booked Adelle for her mare and gelding after stepping into the horse world for the first time. No judgement — just support, guidance, and someone steady to lean on.
Then came a thoroughbred mare…
a tough start in life, not the easiest to connect with.
After thousands spent with vets, and little clarity from physio, they were still left wondering what was really going on.
So they reached out again.
And after just one session… everything began to shift.
The softness came back.
The connection returned.
The horse they hoped was in there… reappeared.
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Because sometimes…
it’s not the behaviour that needs fixing.
It’s what’s sitting underneath it.
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Horses hold their experiences in the body.
Quietly. Honestly. Without filters.
And when given the right space…
they release.
No forcing.
No fighting.
No “training it out of them.”
Just understanding what the body has been carrying —
and allowing it to let go.
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And here’s the part I’ll always gently bring in…
Humans aren’t any different.
We just got better at hiding it.
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The anxiety.
The shutdown.
The reactions we can’t explain.
They’re not random.
They’re responses to something the system learned a long time ago…
and never updated.
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What Adelle does with the body…
I do with the mind.
Different approach.
Same outcome.
Release what’s been held.
Return to what was always there.
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Sometimes they’re not “difficult”…
sometimes they’re just carrying more than they were ever meant to.
Whether that’s in a horse…
or a human.
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If you’re noticing things in your horse that don’t quite add up…
or in yourself…
it might not be something to fix.
It might be something to understand.
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the kind that leave them soft, relaxed, and looking all sleepy 🤍
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