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Danielle Nicole Coaching, LLC seeks to help you thrive in your relationships with God, Others, & Yourself!

Relationships are under attack, & I will help equip you the tools you need! Visit www.daniellenicolecoaching.com for free resources & offerings

02/19/2026

Just as an addict cannot "just stop" through willpower alone...

We cannot expect a betrayal trauma survivor to simply decide to stop the hypervigilance, intrusive thoughts, and fear.

Your brain is doing exactly what it was designed to do in the face of a threat.

The goal isn't to fight your nervous system. The goal is to help it feel SAFE again.

That takes the right support. The right timing. A community that understands. Trauma-informed tools — not just prayer, but brainspotting, somatic work, nervous system regulation.

This is what our group support is built for.

You don't have to heal alone. And you don't have to rush.

Groups forming now > https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScydW4gnTFty0QTmQBHf91A1W0PgAx1iI0l2FYBPYl8pHz10Q/viewform

02/18/2026

People ask me why I stayed.

This is why.

Not because it was easy. Not because I wasn't justified in leaving.

Because I believed God wasn't done with us yet.

He is now 8 years sober. Still standing. Still healing. Still grateful.

This is what it looks like when two broken people do the work.

If you want to hear the full story — the raw, real, nothing-held-back version — Derek and I share our testimony on The War On Love podcast.

Sign up here> https://app.helloaudio.fm/feed/997318af-2d9b-409e-993a-1fd38fb2aae3/signup

02/17/2026

I wrote Part 2 of my addiction/trauma series for you.

Because here's what I've learned — personally and professionally:

His brain was hijacked by addiction.
Your brain was hijacked by trauma.

Neither is a character flaw.
Neither can be willpowered away.
And neither had anything to do with your worth.

Understanding this doesn't excuse what he did.
It doesn't level the playing field.
It doesn't mean you stay or forgive before you're ready.

It just gives you clarity.

And clarity can loosen the grip of the questions keeping you up at night.

Read How Acute Trauma and Addiction Are Surprisingly Similar (PART 2) > https://daniellenicolecoaching.com/blog/f/how-acute-trauma-and-addiction-are-surprisingly-similar-part-2

02/10/2026

RITE Men's Group
2 Spots Left
Keep reading.. If conflict makes your husband shut down, avoid, or go quiet. That doesn’t automatically mean he doesn’t care.

Often, it means:
• avoidance is an attachment pattern
• his nervous system learned silence = safety
• this started long before your marriage

That doesn’t excuse the harm.
But it does explain the pattern.

This group helps men learn how to:
• stay present without flooding
• remain engaged without self-protection
• move toward secure attachment — not perfection
Healing doesn’t mean becoming someone else.
It means becoming secure.
This group teaches how to stay present instead of disappearing.

Sign up here > https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScydW4gnTFty0QTmQBHf91A1W0PgAx1iI0l2FYBPYl8pHz10Q/viewform

02/09/2026

In today’s blog, I share a personal moment that forever shifted my understanding of addiction — and softened a layer of anger I didn’t even realize I was carrying.

In this post, I explore:

- why addiction and acute trauma activate surprisingly similar survival responses
- how compulsive behaviors, hypervigilance, and obsessive thinking are nervous-system driven
- why willpower alone cannot heal either addiction or trauma
- how understanding these parallels can reduce shame and open the door to real healing

Read the full blog here > https://daniellenicolecoaching.com/blog/f/trauma-addiction-it-has-nothing-to-do-with-love-part-1

02/07/2026

After a decade of saying I was an “addict” or “alcoholic” I started cringing -

I was sober and God was helping me step into the Identity He said I was! Yes I was addicted - and no- I cannot drink or use a substance again… but I am an Overcomer and that feels right! That feels true!

There is life and death in the power of the tongue!
I have not “graduated” from the need for recovery that continued until I die - I still attend meetings after almost 20 years of sobriety - but I’m not “a problem”! I’m free from the grip of addiction!! ❤️‍🩹🙌🏼🔥✝️

02/05/2026

R.I.T.E. Men's Group Starting Soon!
Only 2 Spots Left

When: Feb 17th
Time: 5pm EST
12 weeks - virtual

RITE helps men understand how betrayal impacts attachment and teaches practical, empathy-based skills that support real healing, not just behavior change.
If you’re a wife reading this and thinking “this might be what’s missing,” we encourage you to share it with your husband and invite him to consider this next step.

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScydW4gnTFty0QTmQBHf91A1W0PgAx1iI0l2FYBPYl8pHz10Q/viewform

01/28/2026

If you want to radically change your life- live in this space!!!

01/25/2026

I have been doing Boxing and MMA workouts since 2015- little did I know that the bilateral movement- cardio, and strength training was actually helping me to “offload” my trauma! I normally use weighted gloves and a weighted vest to workout - so when I take them off - it feels “easy” .. tonight doing my workout - I felt it was a great metaphor for the battles we fight for our mental health, relationships, and spiritual wrestles .. after a trial- if we follow the Lords directions for how to battle the enemy - we come out stronger- more resilient- and it can make the other stormy trials a little less challenging- not because the trials are easier but because we’re stronger!!!

01/19/2026

Free webinar tonight on Timing of Couples Recovery in Intimate Betrayal!!!

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