11/22/2025
Kathleen Mary Donahue passed away in her sleep on November 20, 2025. She was 73 years young.
Born June 12, 1952 to Russell Donahue and Doris (Maloney) Donahue, she was the fourth of five children. This is where she learned to be loud and loyal. Kathy was the definition of fighting Irish. She had a fierce commitment to life, faith and family.
She was pre-deceased by her parents and her brothers David and Danny.
She is survived by her proudest accomplishments, her children. Melissa Burdick (Bobbi Jo Louis), Ross Spilman, Cate (Gary) Thompson and Erin Spilman. The father of her children, Stan Spilman. Her sisters, whom she loved beyond measure, Susan (Jerry) Altimonda and Laurie Donahue and nieces and nephews. Her grandchildren, Leslie Burdick, William Latour, Ryley and Abby Spilman, Adrienne, Caroline and CP Thompson, Falyn and Charlotte Kinnie. Her great-grandchildren Elijah, Abel and Evelyn. Bonus grandchild Alexis Holmes and great-grandson Niko. She loved being Aunt Kathy, Grammie and GG.
Kathy's heart was her greatest asset. She lived life just the way she wanted until her heart could no more. She taught us that life is not meant for tip toeing. It is meant for dancing to Stevie Nicks, laughing with your friends and blasting Metallica while you clean the house. It is meant for living fully and defiantly, loving abundantly and occasionally creating a little mischief.
There will be no services. Honor her by telling your family and friends that you love them and you are proud of them. A celebration of life will be held in Oswego at a later date.
Arrangements are in the care of the Dowdle Funeral Home