09/20/2025
This is the worst type of relationship ever. Toxic with a capital T! You deserve better ladies! The worst type of relationship is with a man that wants you to himself but wants other options too. Run!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He doesn’t want a relationship with you. Not really. He’s not interested in the kind of love that takes effort, trust, and vulnerability. He just wants you close enough to keep you in his orbit when he needs validation, attention, or a distraction. You’re his comfort zone, his safety net. He keeps you around because you make him feel good about himself, but never enough to actually commit.
He likes the idea of you... the version of you that’s always there when he’s feeling lonely or bored. But when it comes to putting in the work, showing up, and offering you the same care and respect, he ghosts. He pulls away. He leaves you hanging. And you’re left questioning what went wrong, wondering why he can't seem to make up his mind. But the truth is, he’s made his choice. He just hasn’t told you the full story.
He keeps you just close enough to keep you in his pocket, so he can call on you whenever he needs to feel special. But when it comes to making you feel special, to letting you know you matter more than a momentary need, he disappears. Why? Because as long as he knows you’ll stick around in the background, he doesn’t have to fully commit to anything real.
Meanwhile, he’s out there talking to other women, entertaining other options, testing the waters. You’re nothing more than a backup plan in his mind... a warm body for when the others aren’t available. But he’ll never say it. Instead, he’ll keep you in this loop of confusion, making you think maybe he’ll change, maybe he’ll realize what he has in you. But he won’t. Not unless you finally wake up and realize you deserve more than scraps from someone who’s never going to see you as the priority.
So stop waiting for a text that won’t come. Stop overthinking the “maybe’s” and “one day’s” he feeds you. Stop pretending that his actions match his words. Because his actions are loud and clear: he wants you around when it’s convenient for him, but he’s not interested in investing in you the way you deserve.
You deserve more than someone who only wants you when it benefits them. You deserve someone who values you enough to put in the effort and commitment to build something real. If he can’t give you that, let him go... and stop being his emotional filler