04/24/2026
We’ve gotten really good at translating pain into a format that won’t inconvenience anyone.
📲“Haha just tired lol.”
📲“Been so busy honestly.”
📲“I’m good, you?”
There’s a specific kind of loneliness that lives in the space between what you typed and what you sent. Psychologists call it emotional masking and research links it directly to anxiety, burnout, and disconnection in close relationships.
The hard truth: most people aren’t hiding because they don’t trust anyone. They’re hiding because somewhere along the way they learned that being “low maintenance” was the price of being loved.
You don’t have to lead with your breakdown, but you’re allowed to stop editing yourself into something smaller, easier, more digestible. ❤️🩹
Someone close to you would rather hear the real sentence than the convenient one. 🙂↕️
— …Counselling for the parts you’ve been translating too long.