11/03/2025
**Step 1:**
If you have an anxious attachment style, you have to know what your attachment needs and if they are being met in this relationship. they are different from your compatibility needs.
Comment “free” and I’ll send you my free guide to help you understand what your attachment needs are
**Step 2:**
Once you know what you need, communicate it — clearly, calmly, and consistently.
Don’t hint. Don’t test. Just say, “Here’s what helps me feel secure.”
You and I both know that you struggle to do this.
You fear pushing your partner away. I believe you are not ready to date seriously if you cannot tell someone what you need from them without clarity and fear.
**Step 3:**
If your partner can’t meet you there — even after therapy, effort, and conversations —
you have to learn how to love and let go.
And stay single long enough to understand why you keep choosing people who can’t show up, who dont have the emotional maturity and awareness to just talk about whats happening, when it’s all you want.
If you want to be free of the confusion-
who’s right for me, who’s not right for me-
comment or dm me the word “free” and I’ll send you my free guide to help you understand your attachment needs once and for all
