Naj Alikhan, LMFT

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02/13/2026

Quick clip from my YouTube video “Avoidants aren’t fine”
Follow for more if you need help understanding your avoidant partner.

02/12/2026

Comment or DM me the word “attachment” for a short video that explains how I overcame my style and how you can too

Comment or DM me the word “attachment” for a short video that explains how I overcame and how you can too. Social medi...
02/11/2026

Comment or DM me the word “attachment” for a short video that explains how I overcame and how you can too.

Social media needs a villain. Hurt people need a target. I’m not sayin Avoidants are never the bad guy but every single day I work with wonderful people who struggle to connect with the people they love. They deal with feelings of failure and their partners disappointment and just want a way to have the relationship they long for.

If this sounds like you, comment or DM me the word attachment and we’ll get started

02/05/2026

Comment or DM me the word “attachment” and I’ll send you a quick video that explains how I overcame my style and how you can too.

02/04/2026

Comment or DM me the word “attachment” for a short video explaining how I overcame my style and learned to stay.

I am now married and have 17month old son. Two things that that I wasn’t sure would happen for me after my first marriage failed. I didn’t know how to manage my avoidant attachment.

That’s when I developed the attachment healing program.
The same tools that worked for me will work for you.
Comment or DM me the word “attachment” to learn more

02/03/2026

Comment or DM me the word “attachment” for a short video that explains how I overcame and how you can too.

Trying this again. And again. And again. I guess it’s the hill I’m dying on. Avoidants, like all groups, are made of different types of people. Some are terrible and hurt people over and over. But most are not. Most are just trying their best to be partners that don’t disappoint too badly.

Comment or DM me the word “guide” for my free guide on understanding if your relationship has a connection worth investi...
02/02/2026

Comment or DM me the word “guide” for my free guide on understanding if your relationship has a connection worth investing in

01/28/2026

Comment or DM me the word “attachment” for a short video that explains how I healed my avoidant attachment style and stopped shutting down during tough conversations. The tools that worked on me, the same ones I’ve been using for over a decade in my psychotherapy practice, will work for you too

01/28/2026

Comment or DM me the word “attachment” for a short video that explains how I healed my avoidant attachment style and stopped shutting down during tough conversations.

01/27/2026

Here it is.

I didn’t treat avoidants like villains.
I treated them like humans with a nervous system.

A nervous system that learned one thing early:
closeness isn’t safe.

I used the same tools that worked on me.
The same tools I’ve used for over a decade in my practice.

Because avoidants will shut down, but not because they don’t care.

They shut down because they’re nervous systems dont trust what happens when the intimacy starts
all the feelings overwhelm them

They’re flooded.
They’re confused by their thoughts.
And no one ever taught them how to stay present with emotion without escaping it.

So I built a system that teaches exactly that:

- how to stop shutting down

- how to name what you’re actually feeling

- how to create safety instead of distance


It worked for me.
It’s worked for a lot of people who thought they were “just broken.”

If you want to understand how this works —
and how to heal without spending hundreds of hours in therapy

comment or DM me the word **ATTACHMENT**
and I’ll send you a short video that explains it.

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