Are We Good Dads?

Are We Good Dads? My name is Jeff, I am a towboat wheelman working between the Intracoastal and Mississippi River.

Also A Husband to the best wife ever and a dad to 2 kids ( 1 grown and the younger a teenager)

03/08/2026

So, sort of a dad post this week,
This last week I came home from the boat and in 4 days had repairs and estimates for upcoming repairs/projects totalling over 6k.
Wednesday morning started with a Broken garage spring was $724,
Next was Saturday afternoon with water pouring out of a light fixture, this turned out to be a backed up drain for the air condition in the attic. The a/c company had installed a chlorine pod thing and that part( which i didnt know was up there and that I should've been putting chlorine ppds in it for the last 12 yrs leaked, but it also allowed the blocked drain water to leak instead of flowing back to the emergency pan and secondary drain.
That was $468.
12 hrs later the same a/c unit shut off backed up again and we had to call out a plumber this time to the tune of $4300. Next we need the ceiling painted and kilz primer before it starts to mold. About $800.
We had been planning to have some cracks on our brick repaired this yr, that will be between $1500-$2000.
Now the good news, I got my annual bonus and Income tax return coming so those two almost cover the unexpected cost.

So for this week, my heart is heavy with financial stress and I need to just give it all to GOD.
My statement for this week, be prepared, make a saving account and be accountable for it.
Keep a credit card with a low or zero balance for emergencies.
These are things I think add to us being responsible dads.

What say you??
Let's talk about it.

03/02/2026

Good morning Dads, how are we today?
What is something cool your kid(s) did this past week or weekend?
Were you able to attend?
Doesn't matter if they are young or grown. Are we staying connected to them?

My daughter and her high-school choir went to a competition San Antonio this past weekend. I didn't get to go, so just saw pics and videos.
Not sure of their final score but I heard they did pretty good.
My son was in a bad car accident last week, his car is likely totaled and he came out with 3 cracked ribs. Even through the pain, he was on stage at his church playing guitar.

02/23/2026

Good morning Dads, hope all are well today.
Question of the week, and I hope many of you will chime in.

What can you do now or in the near future to be a better Dad? For some that have little ones, let these answers be a learning tool, for those who's kids are grown and gone, please share your experiences.
No wrong answers.

2nd question:
Can you use the same advice to be a better man at work? Several members are my work colleagues, Captains I've worked with directly or alongside, so what do you see in your self that could make you a better manager?

Put these together, what can make us better stewards of our role as dads whether at home or the job?

02/22/2026

Hey Dads, how's it going today?

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