11/17/2025
Just a reminder to all the massage therapists out there that it is not your job to be a miracle worker!!!! It is your job to hold space for the miracles to happen.
Yes, sometimes massage therapists are able to provide incredible transformations. There is nothing wrong with striving to achieve results for your clients, but sometimes, achieving results go beyond what your hands are capable of OR the result requires more work for the client to do outside of bodywork alone.
We should always remember as massage therapists that our worth and the value that we provide is not driven by our ability to “fix” a clients physical issue. It is driven by the quality of space we hold, how much we care, how we educate ourselves, and how we continue showing up.
It can be easy to be hard on yourself and feel like you have to solve your clients every ache and pain, and that is just not doable or realistic.
Holding is sometimes when the greatest things for our client can occur. The moment when they realize how much they deeply needed the time to simply relax, the time they spend allowing their nervous system to unwind, the reminders given about stretching, strengthening, and general self care. The space massage and bodywork gives a client can allow them to “reset” their self care rhythm and tune into what their body truly needs beyond just the bodywork we can give.
Just the other day, I had a client who kept having persistent cramping. It was something we both noticed in all of his sessions and something he dealt with off the table. He really enjoyed having his legs worked, but they would always cramp when I moved into work on them, even with light touch. He decided to start taking magnesium and increasing his electrolytes and the cramping went away completely. At our last session we were able to massage his legs and feet thoroughly and he said, “if it wasn’t for these massages, I would have never made that change.”
You are an amazing massage therapist. You don’t need to “fix” everyone you see. You just have to hold space for them to relax, be present in their bodies, and encourage them to do it more consistently. We all need this kind of space holding!