11/18/2025
I’m a bit tired of the shame spiral our society puts on one another, which in turn we then put on ourselves. Whether it starts with our parents/caregivers, friends, significant others, random people on the internet- it’s really unfortunate.
You can’t shame anyone into doing anything meaningful… they might do it, but it will most likely be met with resentment or inauthenticity.
Obviously this is nuanced and does not pertain to every situation ever in the world.