04/22/2026
Did you know post-mortem photography was once a common part of grieving? In the 19th century, families often gathered for a final photograph together — sometimes the only picture they’d ever have of their loved one. The practice largely disappeared by the 1930s.
But in the last five years, we’ve seen it return in a new form. With cell phones always within reach, more families are taking photos at services — some even taking selfies with a loved one.
We’re curious where you land on this. Meaningful keepsake? Or something that should stay private? Share your thoughts below.
THIS IS HOW WE FEEL ABOUT IT
If your family wishes to have a memento of this nature we think it should be of them and private out of respect for the deceased. From a professional standpoint, it should not be taken as a spontaneous selfie, and it should never be posted on social media. We have found that younger generations do not object to this, while the older generation sees it happening, feels horrified, and thinks we should stop them or do something. Technically, there is no law against this, and we can't tell a grandchild they shouldn't do that. So, we recommend discussing this with the younger generation before the funeral so they know if it is or isn’t ok.