02/27/2026
It's tempting for caregivers to correct or quiz someone with Alzheimer's, but doing so can increase distress instead of clarity.
Rather than arguing about details or trying to "fix" their memory, it’s more compassionate to meet them where they are in the moment.
Their behavior is part of the disease, not a personal affront, so redirecting gently and validating their feelings fosters connection.
And when discussing their care, our conversations should happen out of earshot, because they may understand more than we assume.
It’s important for caregivers to understand what not to do as much as to learn what to do to better support their loved ones. Learn what to avoid when caring for someone with Alzheimer’s.