12/09/2025
✨ 5 Tips for Holiday Get-Togethers with a Loved One Living with Dementia
1. Speak to them, not about them.
Always address your loved one directly rather than asking a caregiver how they’re doing. This helps them feel respected, included, and part of the conversation.
2. Slow down the pace of communication.
Give them time to process what you’re saying and plenty of time to respond. Slower, calmer conversations reduce stress and improve connection.
3. Don’t quiz them.
Avoid questions like “Do you know who I am?” or “What year is it?” Instead, gently offer the information:
“Hi, it’s John—your nephew! I’m so happy to see you.”
This supports dignity and prevents unnecessary anxiety.
4. Choose quieter, low-stimulation moments for connection.
Holiday gatherings can be overwhelming. Invite them to sit on the porch, take a quiet walk, or chat in a calm space. Meaningful moments often happen away from the crowd.
5. Create a safe and supportive environment.
Check for trip hazards—loose rugs, low lighting, clutter. Secure throw rugs with double-sided tape, ensure good lighting, and use grab bars in tricky areas. Also be flexible: they may become overstimulated and need a break or need to leave early, and that’s completely okay.
💜 Need help navigating dementia during the holidays?
If you have any concerns about your loved one or want support so your family can respond well, reach out for a free initial consultation with Peace of Mind Aging Consulting. I’m here to help you create calmer, more connected moments this season.
