02/16/2026
How to Talk to Your Parent About Accepting Help
Choose a calm, unrushed time to talk
Lead with concern, not criticism
Focus on safety and quality of life, not “needing help”
Involve them in decisions to maintain independence
Start small with limited hours or specific tasks
Listen to their fears and validate their feelings
Be patient—this may take more than one conversation
Reassure them that help supports independence, not loss of control