15/02/2026
In the weight loss space, I hear a lot of people say they want to “bounce back” or “get back” to a previous version of themselves that was smaller. But it’s not just the smaller body you’d get back… it’s also a life with less. A version of you that has lived less, experienced less, learned less, grown through less.
Lately, I’ve found myself wishing I could go back too. Back to a version of me before heartbreak. Before certain disappointments. A version of me with more naive hope and untested faith. But that version of me was also less trusting of herself. Less wise. Less resilient. Less proud of how she moves through difficulty.
If we want to erase the hard seasons, we also erase the person who survived them. And what a joy we would be robbing ourselves of.
If you choose to learn through it all, there is no past version of you that is more capable than the one you are now. No matter how different your body, your life, or your circumstances look.
It’s not just our experiences that expand, it’s our capacity to move through them with more grace, faith, and strength.
If the options are going back, staying the same, or moving forward… I’d rather grow. 🌱